Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast, I'm your host Jessica Lagnado. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium,

and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit

mystical advice for living your very best life.

Zilia, welcome to the podcast. What would you like reading about?

Hi, I'm trying to work to overcome an obsession I've formed with a person. When I met this person, I was navigating a particularly difficult time, and he was very inviting. I didn't really think

anything of him until several months later when the budding of a sudden and

very intense crush formed.

I'm not someone who forms crushes very easily,

and he made me feel very seen,

which is something I don't feel very often

and struggle to allow.

I allowed myself to lean into my feelings

for the first time in a way that is likely

very normal for others

but has historically been something

I don't allow myself to do.

I wrote him a letter, not necessarily explicitly outlining my feelings,

but expressing enough of my desire to know him more,

and he gently sidestepped my feelings which was painful but ultimately

fine.

We were fine for a while as acquaintances that have overlap in our friendships, but he's gotten progressively colder towards me to the point to where we barely directly acknowledge each other.

I have no idea what's happened and why this shift has occurred.

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