412: Man Can't Come

Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 November 2023

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Laurie and George answer a mailbag question in this episode. "I think my husband has been faking orgasms...how can I bring this up without increasing the anxiety he may already be feeling?" We want to thank our brave listener for reaching out to us with this question and bringing up a topic that is rarely discussed. Our hosts help provide language for couples and also make more explicit the emotions that end up driving the 'faking behavior'. Learn how to start a difficult conversation with your partner and pay attention to these key takeaways from this episode: the compliment sandwich, reducing unhealthy shame, giving men the permission to not orgasm and taking some of the pressure off. We love helping listeners with questions like this, so make sure you visit our website and drop us a note! Check out our great sponsors: Uberlube.com -- Uberlube is our preferred lubricant for great sex! It's silicone-based and won't stain, is water-soluable, and is all-around fantastic! OMGYes.com -- Great information about women's pleasure. Science-backed information that is tasteful and helpful! A great resource that gives you language to talk about sex. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The following content is not suitable for children.
0:02.9	Faking orgasms. What the heck is that about, Laurie?
0:07.5	I didn't know that was a such a thing.
0:09.3	I mean, I heard a woman faking orgasms, but men do it too.
0:12.4	Men do it too. Yeah.
0:14.9	You think it'd be a little bit hard for a man to do it, right?
0:17.4	Because, well, you could tell, but
0:21.3	it should be somewhere.
0:23.4	There should be some evidence.
0:26.1	Okay, but we've got a question from a listener from our mail
0:29.4	bag, so we're going to talk about it.
0:33.3	Welcome to Fork Play Sex Therapy.
0:35.6	I'm Dr. Laurie Watts and you're sex therapist.
0:37.9	But I'm George Valley, a couples therapist.
0:40.4	We are here to talk about sex.
0:42.4	Our mission is to help couples talk about sex in ways that incorporate
0:47.5	their body, their mind, and their hearts.
0:50.4	And we have a little bit of fun doing it, right, G?
0:52.8	Listen, and let's change some relationships.
0:56.1	Okay. So G, I've got a question.
0:58.4	I'm going to disguise her name, but she says,
1:03.0	I think my husband's been faking orgasms.
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