As far as folks know, I'm like the only out polyamorous rabbi that they have heard of.

And this person said, you know, you don't have to do that, but they also said to me look every time I've come out as a queer

person I've never regretted it and and then they said to me I'm going to use some Hebrew words, one word is

Parnassa, which means like the money you need to live on. And the other is Torah,

your thing that you like you each have a Torah that you're teaching.

You're not each the same person. He said if you are going, this person said if you are going to worry about increasing your

Parnassa at the expense of shrinking your Torah.

Right, then you're going to be miserable.

And that to me goes right back to that idea of narrowness, right, versus breath. And I wouldn't do that to

anyone else, so why would I do it to myself, right?

Welcome to the Multiannary Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not

maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do

relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. you. Fongs I know I did.

Forcing me to for myself to fit.

On this episode of the Multiamre podcast,

we're talking about Polyamary and Judaism

with a very special guest, Rabbi Nicki de Blossi.

She is a PhD and a queer polyamorous entrepreneurial rabbi who brings expertise in

queer theory and belonging to Jewish teaching and ritual.

She holds a BA in women's and gender studies from Harvard,

an MA and a PhD in performance studies from New York University and an MA in Hebrew language and

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