#410 - Vincent Harinam - Why Is The Modern Dating Market A Mess?
Modern Wisdom
Chris Williamson
4.7 • 4.6K Ratings
🗓️ 13 December 2021
⏱️ 99 minutes
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Summary
Vincent Harinam is a data scientist, law enforcement consultant and writer on social phenomenon and the dating market.
Between Tinder and OnlyFans, polyamory and Red Pill, incels, simps, sugar daddies and gold diggers, it's difficult to say that romance is alive and well in modern culture. Vincent has written some of the best articles and done huge deep data dives to uncover why the modern dating market is such a mess.
Expect to learn why smart women are less likely to get married, why simping is such an unsuccessful dating strategy, how women's modern dating advice is mostly total trash, what Vincent's data uncovered around what women and men look for in a partner, how asymmetries in the dating market can create men who are dangerous for public safety and much more...
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| 0:00.0 | Hola amigos, welcome back to the show. |
| 0:03.8 | What my guest today is Vincent Haranam. |
| 0:06.4 | He's a data scientist, law enforcement consultant, |
| 0:09.2 | and a writer on social phenomenon and the dating market. |
| 0:12.4 | Between Tinder and OnlyFans, Polyamory and Red Pill, |
| 0:16.1 | Insel's, SIMPs, SugarDaddies and Gold diggers, |
| 0:19.8 | it's difficult to say that romance is alive |
| 0:22.4 | and well in modern culture. |
| 0:24.4 | Vincent has written some of the best articles I've ever read |
| 0:28.8 | and done a huge deep data dive to uncover |
| 0:30.8 | why the modern dating market is such a mess. |
| 0:34.0 | Expect to learn why smart women are less likely to get married. |
| 0:37.4 | Why SIMPing is such an unsuccessful dating strategy. |
| 0:40.7 | How women's modern dating advice is mostly total trash. |
| 0:44.6 | Why Vincent's data uncovered some scary trends |
| 0:47.4 | around what men and women look for in a partner. |
| 0:50.0 | How asymmetries in the dating market can create men |
| 0:52.5 | who are dangerous for public safety and much more. |
| 0:57.0 | This is one of my favorite topics that I've learned about this year. |
| 1:00.5 | It's so fascinating. |
| 1:02.3 | It's a bit uncomfortable and it's the sort of thing |
| 1:04.7 | that almost no one is talking about |
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