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406xt AITA not letting trans daughter come out to family during vacation? (ft. Christian Crucifix)

AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

Danny Vega

Education, Self-improvement, Comedy, Relationships, Society & Culture

3.9862 Ratings

🗓️ 2 December 2022

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Thanks for listening! And a big shout out to my guest, Christian Crucifix!

Christian's links: https://linktr.ee/christian_crucifixx

(26:36) - AITA for not letting our trans daughter come out to our extended family until after our vacation?

(40:26) - AITA for having a “light’s out” wedding?

(51:22) - AITA for calling my sister’s husband a POS for representing my ex in our divorce?

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0:00.0

Hi everybody. Welcome to AITA Pod. I'm Danny Vega, joined today by a very special guest.

0:12.0

He reached out to me, a trans man said, noticed there wasn't a lot of trans men on the show. And I said, well, we got to have you on. We welcome Christian, a stylist from San Francisco.

0:22.6

Hey, everybody.

0:23.6

Hey, Danny.

0:24.2

Thank you so much for having me on the pod.

0:27.1

Well, Christian, I love that you reached out and, and, you know, you understand that the

0:30.8

point of the pod or at least a major thing we try to do is, you know, talk to people who

0:35.3

have different perspectives.

0:36.6

We've only had one other trans

0:38.2

man on the show. And I said, listen, normally people kind of have to pay to do it up, but we're all

0:44.2

about representation. And, you know, I mean, look, I'll start here. I feel like I don't hear a lot

0:49.8

from trans men. I feel like there's a lot of trans women is more what you hear about. Why do you

0:55.1

think that is? Is that just my bubble or my perception? What do you think? No, I think that that's,

1:00.1

that's pretty, pretty correct. That's usually the story that we hear is about trans women. And I think

1:06.7

the story of someone who is traditionally masculine or living in a man's world, you know, as

1:13.9

the patriarchy is right now currently, you know, transitioning into being a woman or living

1:19.5

your life as a woman or someone who's more feminine, you're giving up a lot of privilege.

1:23.8

And I think that's really interesting for people to hear about. And I think it's, you know, like watching someone go from someone maybe so hardened and masculine and fierce and then transitioning over into their true selves and watching them blossom into something more feminine or soft is really, it might be a little bit more interesting for people.

1:44.5

Oh, okay.

1:45.2

Yeah.

1:45.6

I mean, yeah, that is interesting.

1:48.2

I guess I'm a little bit afraid to grapple with that because I want to grapple mainly.

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