#404: How Losing a Parent Teaches Us About Love and Life with Rainier Wylde

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.9 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 2 September 2024

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Writer Rainier Wylde shares how his father's death triggered a profound internal shift, moving him from a life of safety to one of bold exploration. We dive into the transformative power of grief, the courage required to live authentically, and the creative alchemy that turns personal suffering into artistic expression. Rainier’s journey from "settler" to "pioneer" reveals the importance of embracing vulnerability, rewriting cultural narratives, and finding meaning in both love and loss. This conversation offers an invitation to us all to engage more deeply with our own stories and live in alignment with our truest self. Rainier Wylde is an author, teacher, and mentor dedicated to helping people cultivate courage, joy, and deep intimacy in their lives. With over 20 years of experience, he combines spiritual and philosophical insights with practical coaching to inspire transformative living. Rainier is the author of As You Are: Meditations on Self & Other and co-host of the LOVE LIKE HELL podcast. His daily essays on intimacy and creativity resonate with thousands and his work continues to empower individuals to live fully and authentically. —Rainier’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rainierwylde/ —Rainier’s Website: https://www.rainierwylde.com/ —Rainier’s Creator’s Community: https://www.createyourselfalive.com/ Resources Mentioned In The Episode: —Rainier’s Previous Podcast Episodes: Healing Through Infidelity https://markgroves.com/episode/healing-through-infidelity-with-rainier-wylde-kristi-born/ & The Complexities of Being Alive https://markgroves.com/episode/the-complexities-of-being-alive-with-rainier-wylde/ —Mark Wolyen’s Podcast Episode: What Trauma Have You Inherited https://markgroves.com/episode/mark-wolynn-what-trauma-have-you-inherited/ —Mark Wolyen’s Book: https://amzn.to/4dwAZWr —Carolyn Myss’ Book: The Power of Holy Language to Change Your Life https://amzn.to/3SEYyUQ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Transformative Journey, Grief and Healing, Creative Process, Coping with Loss, Father's Death Reflection, Vulnerability in Life, Authentic Living, Artistic Expression, Emotional Exploration, Personal Narratives, Life and Creativity, Embracing Grief, Creative Healing, Navigating Loss, Emotional Authenticity, Storytelling and Healing, Artistic Journey, Engaging with Emotions, Creative Transformation, Writing Through Grief Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I realized that I had become a settler instead of living as a pioneer.
0:05.7	Happiness requires taking risks and stepping out of comfort zones.
0:10.1	I suddenly realized that that was actually the life calling me.
0:14.0	I did not want to live a conventional life and this meant I was going to have to step into discomfort again.
0:20.0	I think last year the death of my father also the loss of some
0:25.0	profoundly significant relationships around that time. It was a disillusioning.
0:30.0	For me it was a wake-up call that life was too short.
0:35.0	It must be fully lived, you know.
0:37.0	Henry Miller said the single goal of life is to live it.
0:40.0	And I think I had to let go of control,
0:42.0	control of looking good, control of people pleasing,
0:45.2	control, right? And that's what a settler does. A settler is all about control,
0:49.6	settler is all about trying to build the walls that keep other people out and keep people in and instead allow
0:55.8	myself to go out of the city, go out of the camp, go out of the known and experience the freedom
1:01.8	of the unknown because life clearly was not
1:05.2	going to stop coming for me. But first these messages. For the last couple of years
1:10.9	my soul has been calling me towards creating an analog retreat experience for entrepreneurs or aspiring entrepreneurs.
1:17.6	We create our own businesses from a place of passion, purpose, this desire to liberate ourselves, from working for other people, from leaving a 9-to-5.
1:26.4	And then you realize as you're in it that entrepreneurship, much like romantic relationships,
1:31.4	is one of the most potent containers for personal growth because when you build a business based on you and something you love
1:38.1	Then it is directly correlated to our sense of worth and this is why abundance and relationship to money is so
1:44.8	connected to self-worth and security right both romantic relationships and
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