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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

404 - Break Free of the Dating Loop (with Damona Hoffman)

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Relationships, Sexuality, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 10 January 2023

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

For today's episode, we're joined by Damona Hoffman to talk about a variety of topics, including dating and modern dating culture, and she also answers some of our Patreon community's questions. Damona is the Resident Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and OkCupid's Official Dating Coach. Damona is the host of the long-running podcast Dates & Mates, which has just started airing its 10th Season. She is also an advice columnist for the LA Times and a writer on dating and relationships for the Washington Post. Damona can frequently be seen on Access Daily sharing the latest dating news.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I identify what I call five dating loops and these are the places that people are

0:07.4

stuck and not moving through in dating when they come to me and it's either mindset so that's both how you're

0:16.8

thinking about yourself and what you have to offer in in dating in a relationship.

0:24.2

And it's also what you want,

0:26.2

clarifying, really clarifying,

0:27.9

what are your dating or relationship goals?

0:30.0

And who are you looking for?

0:31.6

Who are you looking to meet?

0:33.3

And that's first of all what I think a lot of people are skipping.

0:37.9

And that's why the fatigue, because we are burned out

0:41.7

because we have no criteria that we're

0:43.0

have no criteria that we're searching based on.

0:45.0

We're like, I'm looking for me, I'm looking to feel something.

0:49.0

I'm looking for a pretty face and yet I'm frustrated because I am not having meaningful connection.

0:57.0

Welcome to the Multiannary Podcast.

1:00.0

I'm Jace.

1:01.0

I'm Emily and I'm Dedicher. We believe in looking to the future of

1:05.2

relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're

1:09.5

monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

1:25.0

force a meter for myself to fit.

1:34.0

On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast, we're talking to Domona Hoffman,

1:39.0

the resident love expert of the Drew Barrymore show,

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