One of the biggest questions we get from married couples that have children are, how do we

maintain a healthy sex life while our kids are in the house?

Yeah.

It comes through constantly.

And you know why?

Because it's very relevant.

It's a real struggle.

A lot of couples are just scratching their heads thinking, how do we crack this coat?

And I would argue that this is one of the, I think,

kind of watershed issues for a lot of couples, because what happens is you get married under a

certain pretense, under a certain premise. Yes, you're covenantally committed. Yeah. But something

changes when a child enters the picture. Everything changes. Everything changes in a good way.

Everything changes in how you interact with one another. Your very outlook on life changes. The home

atmosphere changes. It's all very tricky. And if you're not careful, this can create kind of a fracture in that marriage.

And if you don't deal with it, it will widen over time. We believe that if a couple can win in this area, if you can

figure out how to maintain a healthy, emotional, physical intimacy after having children,

and I think you've conquered a big potential issue. Your marriage will be stronger moving forward.

You're planting seeds for a future that is full of flourishing, not just in the years to

come, but in the decades to come. So we're going to cover all that here and now today. So we'll

see you on the other side.

So we didn't have our first daughter until we were 10 years married. Yeah, we got married kind of young. I mean, 20 and 21. And then we intentionally waited. I don't know if that was like a good thing. To be honest, I think that's one of my regrets in life. Yeah, it's not getting started sooner. Because kids are so awesome. Yeah. Being a dad is far better than I ever imagined. So if you're on that side of you haven't had kids yet, let me just tell you from this side, the view is awesome. I wish someone would have told me that. However, God is sovereign. I think he did use that time where we were just kind of grinding in terms of our work lives and starting up some like web development

stuff and all anyway you laugh at grinding I can't say any term without you when you're talking

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