Welcome to Love Your Life with Law of Attraction.

I'm your host Jennifer Bailey, and this podcast is designed to inspire, uplift, and add more joy to your life.

Today, we're going to chat about in-laws, a topic that stirs up energy for a lot of people.

We'll explore how you can shift your energy by letting go of the need for others to change,

especially when it comes to relationships with family. Tune in to discover how practicing alignment with yourself, rather than trying to control

others, can create more peace of attraction and everyday life. Today we're getting into a juicy one. In-laws. Yep, buckle up. Whether you adore them,

avoid them, or just brace yourself for the group texts, in-laws are a topic that stirs up

energy for a lot of people. But I want to talk about them in a way we don't usually hear in a way that's

got nothing to do with trying to fix change or manage them and everything to do with your

vibration. So let's go. And let's start here. Relationships are mirrors. You know this one, right?

People reflect back to us where we are energetically, especially the ones we didn't consciously

choose, like in-laws. You didn't swipe right on them. You didn't build a life with them, at least not directly,

but here they are, attending your holidays, commenting on your parenting choices,

and maybe making you feel like you're being watched through a microscope. So naturally,

the mind goes, how do I get them to stop doing that?

But from an Elo way perspective, that's not the game. The game is what's being activated in me

and what would happen if I soothed that instead of trying to control them?

I once coached someone, we'll call her Jenna, who said, every time my mother-in-law visits,

I feel judged. She doesn't say anything that bad, but it's the way she says it. Like when she asks,

you're giving them cookies before dinner? That's not an attack, right? But Jenna would spiral.

She'd feel small, defensive, and it would ruin the whole visit.

So I asked, is it possible?

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