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The Psychology of your 20s

397. The psychology of office politics

The Psychology of your 20s

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Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Fitness, How To, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 March 2026

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

When we think about office politics, you might think gossip, favouritism, or power plays - the kind of behind-the-scenes drama that makes work feel draining. But office politics isn’t just about one-upmanship or ambition. At its core, it’s a very human process: how people build trust, navigate competition, and influence decisions in the workplace.

In this episode, we break down the ‘unwritten’ dynamics of office politics - why they exist, how they affect your daily work life, and what you can do to navigate them without compromising your values.

We explore:
•        The types of influence and power at work that you can leverage for yourself
•        Why office politics feels inevitable
•        How to recognise unspoken rules and social dynamics
•        Advice on office gossip
•        The 5 things you should be doing at work to get ahead (ethically)

If you want to go into the office with less dread and more clarity, this episode is for you.

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0:00.0

Hello everybody, I'm Jemma Spake and welcome back to the psychology of your 20s, the podcast

0:10.2

where we talk through the biggest changes, moments and transitions of our 20s and what they

0:16.4

mean for our psychology.

0:23.3

Hello everybody.

0:24.7

Welcome back to the show.

0:26.2

Welcome back to the podcast.

0:28.1

It is so great to have you here back for another episode as we, of course, break down the psychology of our 20s.

0:35.4

Here is a story I hear a lot from listeners of the show. It is the story

0:41.2

of someone being fresh out of college, fresh out of uni, getting their first job, starting a new

0:49.2

job, being super optimistic and excited and they're excited for the security and for the paycheck and

0:55.1

like for the beginning of something new. And then a few months in, they encounter someone who just

1:00.8

like wants to make their life miserable, whether that is a colleague, whether that is a boss,

1:06.0

or they realize like, hey, like, wait a second, this workplace literally feels like I'm back in high school.

1:12.5

Why does this person have an issue with me? Why are these people sleeping together? Why did I not

1:17.2

get that promotion when I obviously work harder? Why does this person just hate me? I hear a story

1:22.9

about this probably every week, a story about office politics, about drama and backstabbing and affairs

1:30.0

and stuff that honestly nobody prepares us for in the workplace. We spend so much time at work

1:38.3

and office politics and situations like this do not get enough credit for how stressful they can be.

1:46.9

Because often part of the stress is we have zero idea what to do.

1:50.6

Especially in our 20s, we feel so helpless.

1:53.4

Our work begins to suffer.

1:54.9

We feel pessimistic about work in general.

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