It's really hard to point to just a random stranger on the street and be like that person is definitely stressed and this person over here is definitely not stressed.

There's only so much that we can measure with tests and with

research. Really only the person who is experiencing the stress themselves can determine

if they're stressed or not or how severely stressed they are.

And I think this gets tricky in relationship because sometimes you can feel like you have a better sense of when your partner is stressed out better than

maybe a sense that they have, which maybe sometimes that's true, maybe you can be picking up on things

from the outside that they're not aware of, but also I can't remember the last time that someone told me, hey you're really

stressed and I was really happy to hear that.

Yeah!

Welcome to the Multiannualry Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not

maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating,

or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you. For myself to fit.

On this episode of the Multiammery podcast,

we're talking about something that plagues everyone

from time to time stress.

We've done a few episodes about stress before including an episode a little over a year ago on

Eustress or good stress but this episode is not a rehash of that. Instead, we're going to be talking

about what stress is, how it affects relationships, and especially how it affects relationships when each of the relationships and

talking about some of the especially how it affects relationships when each of the partners are experiencing

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