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I spoke to you about how to get an X back in the past.

We spoke about it in the premise of getting an X back and also the premise of some of

my other content is how to get him or her if you choose to see it in that way to cherish.

And a lot of that content is based on the precipice and on the fact that one is mirrored

by the outside world.

One attitude towards himself is mirrored by somebody who's looking at you.

So if you feel you are worthy of something just humane and maybe even special or maybe

some kind of interaction that is a value and you're cherishable, you are somehow a gift

to people around you, then people will treat you accordingly.

And the whole concept of getting an X back is number one that you probably don't need

to, but if you choose to do so, the only way to do it is to cherish yourself first is

about self work.

It's about concentrating on the self and becoming the person you want to be in.

Then one of two things will happen.

You will attract that person back because perhaps it was in some way your fault in the relationship

where you weren't clearly being yourself, not communicating in the right way, just terrible

to be with in some ways or you will realize that that person wasn't for you and they were

terrible to be with.

And a part of being cherished and a part of showing up in the world as somebody who you want

to be is having strong boundaries and not putting up with terrible things from other people.

When I talk about having strong boundaries, especially for a woman, it is so important

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