39: How The Pain of Regret and Heartbreak Stops You Moving Forward...

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2020

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past.

Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years.

Women who feel they’ve wasted their career so far. Women who still let an old family trauma affect their mood every... single... day.

I know these things are hard.

Believe me, I’m not pretending these are small problems.

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0:00.0	Have you ever made such a big mistake that you wonder, am I ever going to come back from this?
0:07.5	Or maybe you think, have I squandered my potential?
0:12.2	Am I no longer going to be able to get to a level of happiness that I dreamed of, to get to a vision that I had for my life?
0:21.1	Have I made a mistake too big to come back from?
0:26.5	Well, if you do feel like you've screwed up, join us and let's talk about why the game is a lot longer and a lot deeper than you might think.
0:35.8	Well, hi everyone and welcome back to the Love Life podcast. I am Stephen Hussie, your host and I am thinking about the past today and thinking about how we treat the past.
1:05.5	And I think we are so in a time everyone knows we live in this time where it's so easy to compare our own story to other people's and to directly side-by-side compare where we are in life to other people.
1:21.6	And that can cause us to reflect a lot on our decisions and decisions that are in the past that are fixed that we can't change.
1:30.8	But we think, well, how different would my life be if I have made a different decision back then?
1:37.4	And part of the one of the difficult tragedies of life is that we just don't know.
1:44.3	Sometimes we look at a decision and we think maybe things would be great if I made a different decision.
1:51.0	But I'm in the dark about that. I don't know.
1:54.4	And then there's other things where we think, wow, I know at that point I was stupid. I screwed up. I didn't have the knowledge.
2:02.1	I didn't have the wisdom. I have the day. I blew that opportunity. I ruined that relationship.
2:07.8	I was a bad friend. I did something wrong in that moment.
2:12.2	And I think so much of our present happiness is determined by the story we are telling ourselves about the past right now.
2:23.8	And so often it's not people think, well, I need to go back and change the past.
2:27.5	But really it's often we need to go and change our relationship with the past.
2:31.8	We need to change the story. We're telling ourselves we need to give a meaning to the pain that we've gone through.
2:39.0	We need to give a new empowering meaning to it.
2:41.4	And we need to think about what have I actually learned from this?
2:45.7	What is it teaching me going forward?
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