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Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3890: This is What Most People Get Wrong About Willpower by Nir Eyal of Nir And Far on Behavioral Myths

Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

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🗓️ 25 January 2026

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3890: Nir Eyal challenges the popular belief that willpower is a limited resource and reveals how this mindset can sabotage our ability to stay disciplined. Backed by research from Carol Dweck and Michael Inzlicht, the article reframes willpower as an emotion that fluctuates and can be managed, not something we "run out" of. Shifting this perspective can help us build resilience, make better decisions, and stop using "lack of willpower" as an excuse to quit. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/about-willpower/ Quotes to ponder: "Believing we do [run out of willpower] makes us less likely to accomplish our goals, by providing a rationale to quit when we could otherwise persist." "Ego-depletion is essentially caused by self-defeating thoughts and not by any biological limitation." "Rather than telling ourselves we failed because we're somehow deficient, we should offer self-compassion by speaking to ourselves with kindness when we experience setbacks." Episode references: Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs: https://www.jsad.com Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences: https://www.pnas.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is Optimal Living Daily.

0:03.1

This is what most people get wrong about willpower by Neerayal of near and far.com,

0:08.9

and I'm Justomalic, your narrator and host, reading you articles with a bit of my own commentary at the end.

0:15.2

Without further ado, let's get right to it as we optimize your life.

0:22.9

This is what most people get wrong about willpower by near a-all of near and far.com.

0:30.1

You come home after a long day of work and you immediately curl yourself up on the couch

0:34.5

and binge the latest Netflix craze for hours while you scroll

0:38.3

and scroll through your social media feeds and snack on potato chips even though you're on a diet.

0:44.2

You look around and see that garbage needs to be taken out, laundry needs to be folded,

0:48.3

and your child's toys are strewn across the living room floor.

0:51.7

The list of productive things you could be doing seem endless,

0:54.7

yet you can't seem to find the willpower to peel yourself off of the couch to do them.

0:59.1

Is this a regular occurrence for you? Do you realize that you are in this rut but can't seem

1:03.4

to find the willpower to overcome it? You're definitely not alone in this situation.

1:08.1

This is called ego depletion. Ego depletion is a theory that willpower is connected

1:13.6

to a limited reserve of mental energy, and once you run out of that energy, you're more likely to lose self-control.

1:19.6

This theory would seem to explain your post-work defeat. But new studies suggest that we've been thinking about willpower all wrong and that the theory

1:28.2

of ego depletion isn't true. Even worse, holding on to the idea that willpower is a limited

1:33.4

resource can actually be bad for you, making you more likely to lose control and act against

1:38.7

your better judgment. The real nature of willpower. In a study conducted by Stanford psychologist Carol Deweck and her colleagues, published in the

1:47.8

proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, Duet concluded that signs of ego depletion were

1:52.6

observed only in those test subjects who believed willpower was a limited resource.

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