389: When to Appease a Peer and Questions, with Tom Henschel
Coaching for Leaders
Dave Stachowiak
4.8 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 7 January 2019
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
Tom Henschel: The Look & Sound of Leadership
Tom Henschel of Essential Communications grooms senior leaders and executive teams. An internationally recognized expert in the field of workplace communications and self-presentation, he has helped thousands of leaders achieve excellence through his work as an executive coach and his top-rated podcast, The Look & Sound of Leadership.
Listener Questions
- Caroline asked about whether she should appease a peer by interviewing someone she doesn’t think is a good fit.
- Jane asked for suggestions on team diversity.
- Susan asked about promoting engagement with her team when there is lots of reluctance.
- Mariah wanted our advice on creating an orientation program for her team leads.
Resources Mentioned
- StrengthsFinder (Gallup)
- Leading Change* by John Kotter
- Who Moved My Cheese? by Spencer Johnson
- Influence* by Robert Cialdini
- Three Steps to Great Career Conversations with Russ Laraway
- Being the Boss * by Linda Hill and Kent Lineback
- First, Break All the Rules* by Gallup
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- StrengthsFinder Leadership Demands, with Lisa Cummings (episode 320)
- Six Tactics for Extraordinary Performance, with Morten Hansen (episode 337)
- How to Become the Person You Want to Be, with James Clear (episode 376)
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| 0:00.0 | It's the first Monday of the month. It's the first Monday of the year and we're responding to questions from the listening community. This is coaching for leaders episode 389. |
| 0:10.0 | Produced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing Human Potential. |
| 0:15.0 | Greetings to you from Orange County, California. |
| 0:20.0 | This is coaching for leaders and I'm your host. Thanks to you from Orange County, California. |
| 0:22.6 | This is coaching for leaders, and I'm your host, Dave Stahoviac. |
| 0:27.0 | Leaders aren't born, they're made, and this weekly show gives you access |
| 0:31.4 | to the practical wisdom that will empower you to become a better leader. |
| 0:36.0 | Once a month, normally the first Monday of the month, we respond to questions that come in from the listening community. |
| 0:43.4 | Dialogue with you is a key component of what coaching for leaders is about |
| 0:49.2 | and responding to the things you're thinking about is something that we aim to do on a fairly regular basis. |
| 0:54.5 | And most months, I am joined by my wife Bonnie Stahoviac, who tackles many of these questions |
| 1:00.6 | with me, and last year we had a guest on the |
| 1:04.5 | Q&A episode for the first time Tom Henschel my pal from the look and sound of |
| 1:10.3 | leadership podcast for those of you who don't know Tom, |
| 1:13.4 | he has been hosting the Look and Sound of Leadership |
| 1:15.8 | for, oh gosh, almost a decade now, |
| 1:18.7 | and he is joining me this month as well, |
| 1:22.4 | stepping in for Bonnie to help me respond to some of the |
| 1:25.5 | questions that have come in. Tom I am so glad to welcome me back. Thanks a lot. |
| 1:30.0 | I'm glad to be back. One of the great blessings I have had of hosting the show since 2011 is getting to know you. |
| 1:37.9 | Every time you're on the show, so many people reach out to me and mention how helpful your thoughts are. |
| 1:43.4 | So thank you so much for just being a wonderful guide to so many of us. |
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