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Shameless Leadership

389: Holidays, Boundaries, PEACE & JOY

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Education, Management, How To, Business, Self-improvement

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2019

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Every year since launching The Shameless Mom Academy podcast, moms have asked me about how to manage families and boundaries around the holidays. So, every year I talk about it. Because I don’t believe you should compromise your joy to meet someone else’s needs.  I want you to own your holidays. Own your peace. Own your joy. Own the magic. Own the boundaries. Own your disregard for others' expectations of you.  That last part might sound harsh, insensitive, even downright selfish. And maybe it is. And maybe that’s ok! It is not your job to manage the expectations of 4 sets of grandparents, 7 aunts, 3 uncles, 37 cousins, 4 step-siblings, a half-sister and a partridge in a pear tree.  IT’S NOT.  Your job is to meet the needs of your immediate family unit - to create joy and magic and meaningful traditions for these most intimate relationships with the few people you adore more than anyone else in the world.  It might be possible to do this and meet the needs of some extended family. And it might not. And that’s ok.  If you have any dread over the upcoming holiday season, this ep is for you. Tune in to learn how to prioritize all the right things (your joy and peace!) and how to set boundaries around all the noise (even if you love the heck out of those noisy folks!) Links mentioned: SMA episode 371: Train People How To Treat You Thank you to our sponsors Third Love: To find the perfect fitting bra and get 15% off your first purchase got to Third Love Rothy’s: To get free shipping on any order of Rothy’s shoes, as well as free returns, go to Rothy’s and use the code SHAMELESS at checkout.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is the Shameless Mom Academy episode 389. Show notes for this episode, including any links

0:05.7

mentioned in the episode, as well as any discount codes from our sponsors, can be found by going

0:09.7

to shamelessmom.com and clicking on episode 389.

0:17.9

Welcome to the Shameless Mom Academy. I'm your host, Sarah Dean. I'm here to give you and other

0:23.4

passionate, driven, unapologetic moms, tools, resources, and a little bit of humor to help you lead

0:29.5

more positive, powerful, and purposeful lives every damn day. One of the best things about the

0:34.9

Shandless Mom Academy is our community. So be sure to join us in our free

0:38.4

private Facebook group to connect with other shameless moms just like you. You can find us over

0:43.4

at shamelessom.com forward slash Facebook. All right. Let's dive into today's episode.

0:54.0

Hello, shameless moms. Happy Monday. So we're about to be in it just right in the middle of it all.

1:01.4

It's about to be the thick of the holidays. So this recording will go live a week and a half before Thanksgiving.

1:10.3

And so if you're like me, it feels like it's still a month off.

1:14.2

But nope, really wake up because it's here.

1:17.0

So I feel like life is moving at a breakneck speed and I cannot catch my breath.

1:22.0

But also I'm very excited for the holidays.

1:23.5

And part of the reason I'm really excited for the holidays is because my family and I,

1:28.1

we've done a good job over the years of getting more and more intentional around how we spend

1:34.0

family time. And we're lucky that we have really amazing relationships with all of our extended

1:38.6

family. We don't have, you know, a ton of drama or struggles. And I know that that is a gift. But there's

1:45.2

definitely been some bumps in terms of how we've navigated, you know, spending time with family.

1:51.0

We have family all over the country and spending time with family over the holidays, making trades

1:56.4

after getting married. Interesting, fun fact. My husband and I dated for five years before we got

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