Hi, it's Mimi. Welcome to our new weekly Mimi moments, a new series focusing on short impactful

excerpts from some of the most powerful conversations that I've had on the show.

I hope it elevates your day, and if you want to hear the whole episode there's a link in the

show notes. Thanks for listening. Enjoy. I think that I was conditioned just by what I witnessed. It's not like I was conditioned conditioned just by what I witnessed.

It's not like I was taught to do this,

but I just, you know, was modeled this

where, you know, people kind of settled.

They settled for the job that didn't make them happy.

They settled for the relationship that didn't make them happy they settled for the relationship that you know didn't make them a better person you know so I just I always remember that that's okay that it can make you happy that it can let you up that it can give you like this insane energy

and inspiration every single day and I'm like I'm fully committed to doing that and and

pursuing that for the rest of my life and that that doesn't

necessarily mean career like I just I want to give that energy to

relationships to my future kids if I'm lucky enough to to my downtime and my relaxation just like doing things that make me feel alive and

then Peter Kelly also talks about like unkinking your hose

oftentimes we engage in relationships, activities, commitments, or we adhere to dogma that like

is just kinking our hose and not allowing the energy and the love to flow. So it's getting

really real about that and I love her so if you if your listeners don't follow either

of those women I highly recommend Susie Batiz, founder of Poopery, and Peter Kelly.

And then lastly, I think John Wineland had a huge impact on me at a very specific time in my life.

He's a relationship coach, but so much more than that.

I just really learned from him that, you know,

it's not about seeking the love I think it is about allowing the love to

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