385 - Keep Conflict from Destroying Your Relationships

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.9 • 970 Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

This week we're looking at conflict in relationships, what you can do to make sure conflict isn't negatively affecting your relationship, some research on it and some ways we can apply these lessons to our everyday lives, whether that's in a romantic relationship or another type of relationship. We'll be looking at some common patterns of unhealthy conflict, some specific research studies on it, and some actionable takeaways to improve how we can do better when engaging in conflict.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This was one that my mom did all the time and subsequently I did all the time as well which is yeah if you
0:09.6	criticize me for something I'm actually going to point out how wait but you do the same thing
0:13.8	or all the time or actually you're worse at that than I am or what about this time
0:17.1	that you also did the same thing and and it's not helpful or productive.
0:22.1	But sometimes it can feel effective. it's not helpful or productive.
0:23.2	But sometimes it can feel effective.
0:25.2	And this is something that Dedaker and I
0:27.1	have caught ourselves doing, where one person
0:29.6	will come with a complaint and the other one
0:31.1	will kind of immediately, like will kind of react more intensely than seems justified.
0:36.8	And we kind of caught it early on and we're like, what's going on?
0:40.8	Why are you reacting so intensely?
0:43.3	And it's like, oh, I'm preemptively angry at you
0:45.1	because I think you're about to be angry at me.
0:47.0	So I gotta get in front of it.
0:48.6	Amazing.
0:50.8	Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm
0:54.9	Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not
0:58.8	maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just
1:06.2	do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. Fongs I know I did.
1:18.0	Forcing me to form myself to fit.
1:25.0	On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast, we're going to have some fights.
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