383. The Hidden Pattern Sabotaging Your Relationships (And How to Change It)

House of Joy- Christian Life Coaching

Dr. Edie Wadsworth

Christianity, Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2026

⏱️ 22 minutes

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This episode is one of those “you can’t unsee it” conversations. We’re diving into the subtle but powerful patterns that shape your relationships—and how to shift them so you can experience more connection, peace, and joy. Why we often think the problem is the other person The difference between your true self and false self How your false self shows up as: People-pleasing Needing validation Controlling or protecting yourself Why neediness and emotional outsourcing create disconnection How judging and labeling others blocks real intimacy The impact of your thoughts on your relationships Why you cannot have a better relationship than your thoughts about someone How to start shifting into your most grounded, loving self Spend one day thinking the highest, most loving thoughts you can about someone you love… and watch how your experience of them changes. Life Mentoring School → https://www.ediewadsworthcoaching.com/join In this episode, we talk about: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:28.3	ends 5th of may see website for details hello and welcome back to the podcast where you are invited for
0:34.3	lighthearted conversations about things that matter as you seek to live your
0:38.2	most meaningful, beautiful, and joyful life. I'm your host, Dr. Edie Wadsworth, and I hope you
0:43.6	enjoy your stay here at the House of Joy. Hi, dear ones. Welcome back to the podcast. I'm Dr. Edie,
0:50.8	host of the House of Joy. I'm so glad you're here. As always, I feel so honored to be here
0:56.6	myself. Today we're talking about the hidden pattern sabotaging your relationships and how to
1:01.9	change it. First, let me say that today I taught a full hour class on this, and I'm going to put
1:08.4	the link for that class in the show notes. It was so good. I really do
1:13.2	think that once you kind of grasp the concepts that we talked about today, it will completely
1:18.6	change how you understand your relationships. We're going to go over a few points now of the
1:23.6	things that we talked about today. Also, I wanted to let you know that for, let's see, when this podcast comes out, there will be
1:31.4	three or four more days left of our flash opening of life mentoring school.
1:37.0	Now, normally we only open four times a year.
1:40.1	We are doing a little few days of a flash opening right now.
1:44.4	So if you've been meaning to join us, we would love to have you there.
1:47.6	And I think after you hear today's podcast, and especially if you go listen to that teaching
1:52.7	that I did today, you're going to want to join us in there because this is what we talk about
1:56.3	and work on and think about all the time.
1:59.7	Now, most people think that the problem in their relationship
2:02.7	is the other person. So often when women come into my program or when I'm just talking to
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