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Parenting Beyond Discipline

#38: The Downsides to Rewards & Punishments

Parenting Beyond Discipline

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

Health & Fitness, Education, Parenting, Mental Health, Kids & Family

4.4631 Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2016

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Rewards and punishments are just different sides of the same coin and are highly ineffective for long-term development and growth. Learn about the downsides of these two commonly used parenting tools and what you can do instead to raise cooperative, respectful and responsible kids! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/parenting-beyond-discipline/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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keeping everything secure. Hello, everyone, and welcome to the Your Village podcast,

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parenting beyond discipline, the place to learn about all things parenting and get your

1:09.1

questions answered. I'm your host, Aaron Royer. I miss doing

1:14.2

my podcast last week. It came down with a terrible case of bronchitis and just couldn't shake it.

1:21.0

But now I'm back covering the topic I had planned for last week, talking about rewards and

1:26.5

punishments, their downfalls, and what to do

1:29.6

instead. These reward and punishment systems are everywhere. They permeate our culture. They

1:37.3

always have been and continue to be popular in a lot of schools today, and most of us grew up

1:42.9

with these in our homes, so it's just what we know.

1:46.3

It's what we are familiar with. I actually just did a Pinterest search on rewards and

1:51.8

punishments as I was preparing to do this episode. And many of the things that came up from a child

1:57.8

development perspective were absolutely cringe-worthy. Listen, there are some great

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