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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

#38 Preston Smiles on Why You Need to Make Play a Priority

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2017

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

When he realized that his anger and rebelliousness were leading him down the wrong path, Preston Smiles asked his parents to send him away. He was welcomed in by a family friend in Pittsburgh and soon realized that destructive behavior was not limited to a certain geographical location. However, due to his desire to question everything the circumstances had a different result. Through insight and self-reflection he transformed his entire life from being a self-identified dumb kid to being the Chief Love Officer of his own company. Today Preston builds clean water wells, gives life-changing seminars, creates video content, and touches lives all over the world. Meet the man who Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul, calls unstoppable in this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. PULLED QUOTES 1.“We’re constantly creating stories. Most of the time, these stories are not facts.”[3:05] 2.“We’re always creating our reality with our thoughts, our words, and our actions.”[3:59] 3.“For me play is highly important, so I schedule it in.”[8:49] 4.“When my cup is full I can give from the overflow, and that overflow is a beautiful thing.”[9:12] 5.“The beautiful thing about nightmares is you always wake up.”[19:06] 6.“I slow down to the speed of wisdom and allow it to hit me.”[32:37] SHOW NOTES Preston explains the difference between facts and stories. [2:48] Preston talks about his transformation from being angry to playful. [6:49] Preston describes the American nightmare and how to create what you want to experience. [10:07] Tom and Preston discuss a lesson he learned from the velveteen rabbit. [13:27] Preston shares methods he uses to build his worldview. [17:36] Preston goes deep on the process that happens when building your dreams. [21:39] Preston explains the difference between choosing and wanting. [26:47] Tom and Preston discuss the process of becoming who you really are. [30:19] Preston reveals how he helps his clients climb out of the emotional traps. [34:15] Preston talks about different levels of consciousness surrounding societal norms. [35:00] Preston expounds on why he believes that everything is neutral. [36:50] Preston defines the impact that he wants to have on the world. [38:26] MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE BOOKS Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life http://amzn.to/2wlIP03[1:51] Now or Never: Your Epic Life in 5 Steps -http://amzn.to/2xsusfj [1:52] Chicken Soup For the Soul -http://amzn.to/2xsVhAd[2:05] ORGANIZATIONS Love Mob -http://bit.ly/2wGlqIn [1:29] The Bridge Experience -http://bit.ly/2gFtFN9 [2:01] PEOPLE Jack Canfield -http://bit.ly/2xNTTF9 [2:03] FOLLOW PRESTON TWITTER: http://bit.ly/2f1LwxN INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2x9NMxU FACEBOOK: http://bit.ly/2iqpZiw WEBSITE: http://bit.ly/2wGlDLF

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the Impact Theory Podcast, your source of empowering ideas and actionable techniques from the world's highest achievers.

0:08.0

Join host Tom Billio, serial entrepreneur and co-founder of the billion dollar brand Quest Nutrition, on a journey to unlock your potential and realize your vision of success.

0:19.0

Welcome to Impact Theory.

0:23.0

Everybody, welcome to Impact Theory.

0:26.0

You were here, my friends, because you believe that human potential is nearly limitless, but you know that having potential is not the same as actually doing something with it.

0:34.0

So our goal with this show and company is to introduce you to the people and ideas that will help you actually execute on your dreams.

0:42.0

Today's guest is essentially the real life fresh prince of Bel Air, after being placed in special ed class, becoming very angry and rebellious, and finally narrowly escaping a fate that saw several of his friends shot and one of them killed, he asked his parents to send him away.

0:57.0

Without knowing where he'd end up, he found himself stepping off a plane in Pittsburgh and being welcomed in by a family friend who lived in one of the wealthiest public school districts in the country.

1:07.0

Now, the only black man in the entire school, he discovered that while the context was different, it was just as easy to find the drugs, gangs and destructive behavior that had sent him packing in the first place.

1:19.0

But, in this new context, with different expectations, the same behaviors had a very different result.

1:25.0

His new and old friends both acted the same, but his old friends were headed to jail and his new friends were headed to Yale.

1:31.0

The realization that merely changing the context could have such a dramatic impact on everything, he began to question everything.

1:39.0

What followed was a slowly unfolding parade of insights and self-reflection that would ultimately see him transform his entire life from an angry, hard-headed, self-identified dumb kid that people said was closed off,

1:52.0

including the founder of Love Mob and the self-proclaimed Chief Love Officer of Zone Company, which is designed from the ground up to spread love and connection.

2:02.0

Today, he didn't go to jail or Yale, but instead travels the globe building clean water wells, giving life-changing seminars, creating video content and touching lives wherever he goes.

2:12.0

He's also an author with Simon & Schuster and has written two books, Love Louder and Now or Never, co-authored by his wife Alexi Panos.

2:20.0

Help me in welcoming the CEO and founder of Motivational Messenger and the Bridge Method, the man that Jack Kenfield best-selling author of Chicken Soup for the Soul calls Unstoppable, Preston Smiles.

2:32.0

Thank you.

2:39.0

It's good to have you, man.

2:43.0

Indeed.

2:46.0

I was waiting for that.

2:48.0

I've seen so many of your videos and I'm like, if I don't get the woo woo, I'm gonna give it to you about seven times today.

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