38. How to Love and Lead Your Wife
The Suzanne Venker Show
Suzanne Venker
4.9 • 650 Ratings
🗓️ 29 March 2020
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Dear Men,
Do you wish your wife would stop nagging and have more trust and faith in you? Do you wish she would smile more and complain less? Look at you the way she did when you were dating?
You have the power to make it happen.
Women respond to men who are fully grounded in their masculine core. When you master this skill, you’ll find the wife you remember from all those years ago is back. There will be far less bickering and much more sex. Life at home will become a sanctuary instead of a war zone.
Aren’t convinced? Join Suzanne and GS Youngblood, https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ author of The Masculine in Relationship, to learn how to love and lead your wife so that she naturally softens and becomes easy to love. And isn’t that what you want?
10:58 Qualities of men who aren't living in their masculine core
14:00 You can’t address an emotional expression with information
14:40 When a man doesn’t OWN something, it’s frustrating for women
17:28 How to respond vs. react to your woman’s actions and outbursts
22:30 When men react with anger, women feel unmoored. Anger severs connections.
35:00 What a man who lives in his masculine core looks like:
41:55 When you ground yourself and live in your masculine core, something amazing happens: the playful, sexual women you knew before (when you were dating) emerges
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| 0:00.0 | Broadcasting from the Harris-Saloon corporate offices, it's the Suzanne Benker Show, where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature. |
| 0:17.2 | Drop the junk you've been fed from the culture and join us here every week as we help you and the people you love feel secure in your beliefs about what you know is right and confident in your desire to speak your mind. |
| 0:27.5 | Today on the show, we're going to talk with GS Youngblood about a very important subject specifically for men. |
| 0:33.4 | How to love and lead your wives. |
| 0:36.5 | If you're a man who desperately wants his wife or girlfriend to |
| 0:39.3 | trust him, to stop fighting with him, to smile more and to complain less, or to look at him the way |
| 0:45.0 | she did when you were first dating, you do not want to miss this episode. So I've spent a lot of time, |
| 0:50.3 | as many of you know, helping women understand what it is that men want and need and how |
| 0:55.0 | women can be better wives. I even wrote a whole book on that, which basically the title |
| 0:59.6 | could have been, how to be a better wife, or even just how to be a wife, because that, a lot of |
| 1:06.1 | people ask me, like, why do you focus so much on women? And the answer to that is that those two answers. |
| 1:12.1 | One is because largely speaking, women are their relationship navigators and men do tend to |
| 1:18.3 | take their cues from the woman they love. But the bigger issue, of course, is that women |
| 1:24.7 | today have not been raised to become wives and mothers. They're raised |
| 1:29.5 | to rule the world. And it's been my argument all along that that is leaving a gaping hole |
| 1:34.4 | in how they are going to navigate their personal lives because they just simply don't |
| 1:39.0 | understand men the way that women used to. Nobody talks them about it. Nobody tells them how to navigate a relationship |
| 1:47.5 | with a man by understanding the differences between women and men, which by the way, of course, |
| 1:51.9 | was very common back in the day. So they're largely shooting blanks. That being said, |
| 1:57.9 | just as women have the power to transform their marriages by becoming more |
| 2:01.7 | feminine, which is essentially the argument I've made, men too have the ability to transform |
| 2:07.6 | their marriages by becoming more masculine. So there is a flip side to this issue. And I've heard |
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