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Prosperity With Purpose | Christian Leadership Coach | Create More Peace, Make More Money, Multiply Your Time, Steward Your Business God's Way #LeadingLadiesMovement

38 | Do You Love Yourself?

Prosperity With Purpose | Christian Leadership Coach | Create More Peace, Make More Money, Multiply Your Time, Steward Your Business God's Way #LeadingLadiesMovement

Jessica Hefley Christian Leadership Coach - formally "You're Worth It"

Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Business, Entrepreneurship

2.5596 Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2020

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

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12 weeks of interactive coaching designed to help you steward your life, multiply your business God's way, and CREATE MORE PEACE to MAKE MORE MONEY!!

Do you love yourself? I want you to REALLY think about this! Like REALLY, REALLY think about it. Pause, give yourself time to turn this question over in your head, and see what feelings come up. 

Sometimes we refuse to put any effort into creating a good life for ourselves because we don't feel like we deserve it. We're going there, friends! Do you feel like you deserve good things? Remember that you live into the story that you tell yourself, and if you tell yourself you don't deserve all the goodness, you're not going to get it!


I've heard over and over again from the people I coach that they haven't given themselves permission to succeed. But I want to give you permission to succeed because you are amazing and you are worth it! Next time you pass a mirror, I want you to stop and look and say "I love you and I'm proud of you!". And I want you to do that every single time you pass a mirror.

The person you need to forgive the most in your life is yourself! We're so hard on ourselves for past mistakes, things we've said or done, or things that can't be changed. What if it was your child saying they're stupid, or that they don't belong? Would you agree with those thoughts? Are you going to sit there and affirm their negative ideas? Heck no! You're going to call their BS and speak love and success into them. That's what you want and see for your children!


But is that what you want to see for yourself? Forgiving yourself and loving yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do! We talk about the bible verse "love your neighbor as yourself" and we skip over that "love yourself" part. You can't pour from an empty cup and you can't serve and love others if you don't give yourself the same love.

Three things you really need to do to love yourself and give yourself permission to succeed include-


Forgive yourself for your past mistakes.

Appreciate your present.

Step into your best future.

The best is yet to come! Because you love yourself and you're proud of yourself you can speak life into others and make an impact!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Your Worth It podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Heffley, a top earning industry expert, self-development junkie, introvert, and thanks to the aneagram, a recovering perfectionist. As a small town girl, I'm all too familiar with the tension between comfortable contentment

0:23.0

and pressing into your courageous calling. By increasing my self-worth, I increase my net worth,

0:30.4

and I'm here to help you drop the guilt over having more of both. I know you're so tired of the

0:36.6

doubt, debt, and distractions. I also know you're a

0:40.4

leader who doesn't avoid hard things. So ready or not, let's intentionally live a life of peace,

0:47.5

profits, and most importantly, purpose. I can't wait to see you walking in worth.

0:59.4

Hey everybody. Welcome back. I'm just going to cut right to the chase today. Do you love yourself?

1:09.4

Do you love yourself? What comes up when I say that? Think about that for a minute. I'm actually going to pause for like, I'm going to pause right now. Here we go. Do you love yourself? That was only five seconds.

1:33.0

Did that seem like a long time?

1:34.9

Did that feel unfamiliar or comfortable for you to ponder that question?

1:39.0

I've been thinking about this a lot for myself,

1:43.0

and I really wanted to share this with you because everything I teach with you

1:46.0

is stuff I'm going through in my own personal life. People always come to me and they're like,

1:49.4

how do I, what do I, how do I add value to the world? And I just say, well, what are you personally learning?

1:54.9

What are you going into anyways? I digress. Okay. Do you love yourself? Okay, because sometimes

1:59.7

we refuse to put any effort into creating a good

2:03.7

life for ourselves because we believe we don't deserve it. Let me read that again. Sometimes we

2:09.5

refuse to put any effort into creating a good life for ourselves because we believe we don't deserve it.

2:17.1

We're going there, friends. Do you feel like you deserve good things in your life?

2:24.2

Because if you don't, you'll live into the story you tell yourself. When is the last time you gave

2:32.2

yourself permission to succeed? Okay? I'm seeing this over and over and over again

2:38.1

from people that I coach is they have not given themselves permission to succeed. Okay. And so maybe

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