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Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

38: Am I doing it right?

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 β€’ 1.9K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 9 October 2016

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

What can we do when we feel inadequate in bed or fear that we're not doing it right. How to manage the expectations we all have in bed. Join certified sex therapist and author Laurie Watson and her co-host pyschotherapist Dr. Adam Mathews in exploring this sensitive topic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello again and welcome to Four Play Radio Sex Therapy. I'm your host, certified sex therapist Lori Watson,

0:14.9

author of Wanting Sex Again, and Blogger

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at Psychology Today and WebMD.

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And I have with me Dr. Adam Matthews, my cohost who's a couples therapist psychotherapist and

0:25.5

president of NCA MFT. Fourplay is dedicated to helping couples keep it hot.

0:31.0

Each episode we cover an aspect of sex that impacts your sex life and something that you can relate to. So if you find our discussions helpful, please give us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. We would love it if you would tell a friend about us. You can find us on the web at foreplayrest.com

0:47.3

and if you have a comment or a topic that you'd like us to talk about we'd love to hear from you

0:51.6

please send them to us at info at foreplay RST.

0:55.5

Thanks for listening now on to today's topic. So today we've got a mailbox edition. Thank you so much. We love to take these two. Please send us your questions or comments or things you you know situations and

1:09.6

Adam and I love to talk about that kind of stuff. Yeah, okay today do you want to read it or shall I read it? You read it. I'll read it.

1:16.7

You're what we do. One at each. Okay. I'm a 39 year old divorce female with two kids, their older children. I have only been

1:25.9

with a few partners in my life. I'm insecure with my abilities which causes me to

1:31.3

be too anxious to let my inhibitions go.

1:34.2

One other thing, I have never experienced the big O.

1:37.4

Okay, so I recently started seeing a 43 year old divorce gentleman with no children. We have sex every time we see each other. He has

1:45.0

never been able to orgasm either. At first because of my own insecurity I thought

1:49.8

that he wasn't interested in me and that I didn't do the right things to satisfy him.

1:54.4

How can you help us?

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Okay, awesome, great questions.

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All right, so where Lori would you start several things that stand out for this couple right away, but where would you start?

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What would you start?

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What are the questions you would want to ask?

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