377: Self-Love Standards
School of Self-Image
Tonya Leigh
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🗓️ 21 February 2024
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
Raising the Bar: How to Set Higher Standards for Self-Love
What is your self-love standard? This week Tonya Leigh discusses the importance of self-love standards and how they can impact our lives. Self-love is not just about fluffy feelings, but about setting expectations for how we treat ourselves. So, how do we raise our self-love standards? By examining how we talk to ourselves, how we treat our bodies, and how we expect to be treated by others. Tonya shares personal experiences and examples to illustrate the power of self-love standards and how this manifests in our self-image. Tonya encourages listeners to align their standards with their future self-image and create a life that reflects their highest potential.
Episode Details:
03:24 The power of self-talk
07:32 Raise the standard of self-love
09:19 Self-love and body image
14:49 Alignment and synergy
17:09 Reevaluate current standards
21:35 Elevating your self-image
Quotes:
"I am so proud of you for trying. I am so proud of you for putting yourself out there. You are smart. You are kind. You are beautiful. You have what it takes. Go get it, girl."
"As someone who used to be so mean to the reflection in the mirror, I just refused to do that anymore because nothing good came out of it. It just made me feel terrible, which then led me to take terrible actions that just kept me perpetuating terrible results, truly."
"You will always prove to yourself how you see yourself."
"If you're constantly comparing. to either past versions of yourself or other people, you will not see your own."
"If you don't love yourself, madly, ridiculously, unapologetically, this world will run all over you."
"It is time for you to create your own 'powerfully ever after'."
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | When you look at yourself in the mirror, how do you expect to talk to yourself? |
| 0:08.0 | When you make a mistake, what do you tell yourself? |
| 0:12.0 | When you go into... What do you tell yourself? |
| 0:17.0 | When you go into the kitchen to get something to eat, what do you grab and how much do you eat? |
| 0:20.0 | When your body is tired, how do you treat it? when your |
| 0:23.0 | how do you treat it? |
| 0:25.0 | When you are around people, how do you expect to be treated? |
| 0:29.0 | The answers to those questions reveal your what I call self-love standards and in this episode we're talking about potentially raising them so that you will have a more fulfilling and beautiful life. |
| 0:42.2 | So let's dive in. |
| 0:48.3 | Welcome to the School of Self Image |
| 0:50.6 | where personal development meets style. Here's your hostess master life coach |
| 0:55.2 | Tanya Lee. Hello friends and welcome back to the podcast. Today we are talking about all things self-love. But I'm not going to be |
| 1:06.8 | talking about fluffy feelings and wishful thinking. I want to talk about the |
| 1:12.2 | power of self-love standards. |
| 1:15.0 | Yep, this is all about your standards for your own love, |
| 1:20.0 | what you expect of yourself. |
| 1:22.0 | A standard is defined as what is accepted as normal or average? |
| 1:29.0 | So when it comes to your own self-love, what have you accepted as normal or average? Do you tend to |
| 1:36.7 | yourself? Do you trust yourself? Do you speak kindly to yourself? What do you expect of yourself when it comes to your own self-love? |
| 1:49.2 | One of the things that I often tell members of the school of self-image is you don't get what you want, you get what you expect. |
| 1:56.2 | And when it comes to how we treat ourselves, there are certain things that we expect. |
| 2:02.0 | And if you think about it, we often expect what we have tolerated from the past, what we have |
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