This is 5 Minute Friday, episode number 375, and it's all about overcoming the struggle.

Now Tony Robbins said, the secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure

instead of having pain and pleasure use you.

And if you do that, you're in control of your life.

If you don't, life controls you.

Now recently there's been a lot of people talking about the struggle to me.

They're struggling with their finances.

They're struggling in the relationships, their health, their careers.

They've just been struggling.

I'm getting a lot of these comments coming in on my social media, on my email.

It's a lot of people mentioning that they're struggling and they want to know how to get

out of this pain.

And there are two types of pain that I've discovered.

There's the pain that poisons you.

Now this is the pain that makes you negative, that makes you into a quitter, that makes

you beat yourself up over and over and you hold onto it forever so that you suffer.

The pain that makes you suffer, this is the pain that I see so many struggling with because

they don't know how to overcome this type of pain.

And then there's the pain that propels you.

The pain that said, I'm not dead, my life isn't over.

It's not the end of the world right now.

And if I get dumped or if I lose someone or I lost that job, then it's all going to be

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