3735: The ONE Critical Thing Holding You Back From Happiness by Paula Pant of Afford Anything

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🗓️ 12 September 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3735: Paula Pant explores how fear of mistakes often keeps us from making progress, revealing that the real cost lies not in failure but in inaction. She illustrates how reframing errors as stepping stones can unlock growth, resilience, and opportunities that perfectionism will always deny us. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://affordanything.com/one-critical-thing-holding-back/ Quotes to ponder: "Most people don’t fail because they try and it doesn’t work out. They fail because they don’t try at all." "Mistakes are the tuition we pay for the privilege of learning." "If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not making decisions." Episode references: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322 The Lean Startup: https://www.amazon.com/Lean-Startup-Entrepreneurs-Continuous-Innovation/dp/0307887898 The War of Art: https://www.amazon.com/War-Art-Winning-Creative-Battle/dp/1936891026 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	If I get my kid a phone, I'll be able to keep in touch with them all the time.
0:02.8	We'll be on it all the time.
0:04.1	He could walk to school by himself. She could see something, she shouldn't. He could chat with grandma. Friends, trolls. They can access anything on the internet. They can access anything on the internet. So, should I give my kid a phone? Growing up with phones isn't always easy. Introducing EEE safer Sims. Sims that help moderate usage and shield harmful content on any smartphone.
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0:30.3	This episode is presented by eBay.
0:33.9	Rob.
0:34.8	Everyone loves a deal and a bargain from time to time, don't they?
0:57.2	Absolutely, mate. And do you know where you can grab a great deal? Talk to me. Where? The eBay app. Yes, you are correct. You didn't need to talk to me. I already knew it. I love eBay. When you're buying, you can discover loads of hidden gems. There's so many items where you think I would have never found that anywhere else. Then when you're selling, it's so simple and most importantly, free.
0:54.8	It's free Rob. When it's this easy to sell for free
1:00.5	and there's great deals on things you love. You can't help but say when it's eBay. It excludes
1:05.1	vehicles and business sellers. This is Optimal Living Dealey, the one critical thing, holding you back from happiness by
1:14.5	Paula Pant of Affordanithing.com, and I'm Justin Mollick. Welcome to the show where I read to you every day
1:20.9	from the best authors I can find and get permission from, little daily dose of inspiration, motivation,
1:26.6	or happiness for our days. This one is talking
1:29.7	about happiness, so let's get right to it as we optimize your life. The one critical thing
1:38.9	holding you back from happiness by Paula Pant of Afford Anything.com.
1:46.4	Fear is whispering.
1:48.9	It's in your ear and it's getting louder.
1:51.5	You can't quit your job, the fear whispers.
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