When you listen to a lot of thought leaders within non-monogamy, I feel like they tend to lean on logic and kind of like a layman's version of cognitive behavioral therapy and that has a place but I don't feel like it's an end-all be all and again

there might be cultural misogyny happening because let's face it like a little piece of misogyny is woman emotional bad man logical

good and that just kind of feeds it like with even if we're a woman we have

didn't see you go oh I'm being logical so therefore I'm being superior I'm being superior.

I'm being more evolved.

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On this episode of the multi-ammery Podcast, we're going to be answering some questions from our patrons, and we're doing that with a very special guest, Kate Lurie.

Kate Lurie is an LM. M. F. T. A Sex Positive licensed marriage and family therapist

with a specialty in non-monogamy, Kink, LGBTQ relationships, and sex worker

communities and is the author of Open Deeply, a guide to building conscious, compassionate open relationships.

She also co-hosts her own Sex Positive podcast open deeply along with another friend of ours sunny megatron

So Kate thank you so much for being on the show

Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to be here.

So Kate, it's always so exciting to welcome another non-monogamy resource onto the scene.

So can you tell us a little bit more specifically about your book?

Well, you know, one thing that I noticed

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