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🗓️ 22 July 2025
⏱️ 60 minutes
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A young woman grows up in chaos and instability but finds strength through education and a deep connection to the outdoors—until a harrowing solo trek on the Pacific Crest Trail challenges her sense of self and reaffirms her bond with others.
Today’s episode featured Betty Nickerson. If you’d like to email Betty, you can reach her at [email protected].
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Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli
Content/Trigger Warnings: divorce, suicide by gun, teen pregnancy, unhoused/rough living, poverty, being lost in the wilderness, extreme cold while lost outside, smoking, explicit language
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Music Bed: Re-Entry
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0:34.4 | I didn't feel like lonely. I felt solo. All of a sudden, I'm the one making the rules, |
0:37.7 | all the rules, because I have no reference. That's scary. That's scary to just think, like, you have all this stuff within you |
0:41.1 | that is going to either kill you or save you. |
0:43.5 | What is in there that is going to actually be able to be pulled out and utilized in a way |
0:48.7 | that's going to save your life? |
0:59.9 | From Wonder. From Wondery, I'm Whit Misseldine. You're listening to This Is Actually Happening. |
1:07.5 | Episode 372. |
1:10.9 | What if you were lost on the Pacific Crest Trail? |
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1:51.4 | Binge all episodes of Liberty Lost ad free right now on Wondery Plus. My mother was a teenage bride, and she met her husband at 15. They had their first child, and she actually died |
2:20.9 | of SIDS four days after she was born, and I think that was a really difficult time for my mom. |
2:26.3 | She really wanted to be a housewife, and I think she really idolized this quintessential idea of |
2:31.6 | the female homemaker. |
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