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372 Sarah how are you? This is airing on 11 11. Oh I love that lucky. Are you into that? Yeah you seem like it. Yeah I am you know I just feel it almost feels like

It's like that confirmation bias thing or like you know, I'm like and I'll be I'll like receive a text message from somebody at exactly 11 11

And it'll be like somebody I really care about have been thinking of and I was like oh perfect timing. I'm gonna start doing it on purpose. Yeah, I've done my show. And then I have I keep the clock in my car a little bit fast

Because you know helps me be on time places. Yeah sort of sometimes. Um and so sometimes I'll get to get it twice because I'll see it on my phone and then I'll be like

See it in the car too. Right. Yeah, it doesn't you know, so really it's like do you make a wish? No, I've never done that. Oh, I should know this lady's that do that.

Like ladies. There was lady is right because I always think about I think it was Paris Hilton. He always did that on fucking Instagram.

11 11 make a wish. Why are you doing that? Yeah, but people get really to it Sarah. Maybe making a wish ever now and then isn't the worst thing because it's almost in a way like

I don't know. Prox and gratitude. Maybe putting something onto the universe. Yeah, I don't need an object object to that. It's more of the telling other people that I object to

pretty much prescribing anything to other people when they have not asked for it. I had to learn that lesson. No, ask no advice. That's what my therapist always said. Wait, really?

Yeah, because like I give unsolicited advice to people who maybe don't want my advice. Yeah, I do. It's like

And she's like, you know how they they want your advice? They're paying you for it. So I was like, oh, oh, that's good.

Good rule of mind mainly on how to like not go home and be a therapist to whoever I'm dating or

Yeah, I get that stuff. You know, so I forgot to ask you. Yeah, whenever I was still in Pittsburgh and you had already come back

and then I went out to dinner with my friend Kelly. Yeah, and we were texting you during dinner. Oh my gosh. That was funny. I wanted to follow up because

um

I'm like, let me get my text out. What did I say? She okay, Kelly is a lesbian. Yes. Oh right. She's married with kids. I don't mean oh right. She's a lesbian. I I knew that part. I mean oh right because now the memory of the conversation is coming back up. Just be clear of people who are listening. Yeah, and um she

noted how you identify as a queer woman and you're

up until recently we're dating around and she wondered if you had dated any women and I said no and she was like very disturbed

because she she truly was. She was like, I don't think it's fair then for her to identify as queer. Yeah, when she singles she only dates men. Right. But I was not opposed to dating women and I absolutely

barked up a few trees that and kind of got like the cold shoulder. The cold fidget. Yeah, I know it was one person that I was like, oh is she and like I'm kind of into her. She wasn't lesbian. Oh, and so it's like okay. So you're just like maybe it's that you're not practiced enough now. Yeah, you're like rusty. Yeah, but it's like I and you know now I would what there's a new word that I heard it's like

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