37: Three Proven Ways to Become a Better Speaker
Coaching for Leaders
Dave Stachowiak
4.8 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 14 May 2012
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
Leaders need to be able to speak confidently, clearly, and concisely to others – yet surveys show that at least 10% of the US population fears public speaking more than death. Even if that isn’t true for you, chances are that you might not be as effective or confident as a speaker as you would like to be. In this new series, we’ll look at what you can do as a leader to both speak and present more effectively, and help coach others to do this too.
I started off this episode by talking about how I used to HATE public speaking and feared any speech…for days in advance. My trouble started in third grade and followed me well through college. I describe what I did to overcome these challenges and outlined three steps below that I know will be helpful to you as well.
1) Get in front of people!
- I looked for every opportunity to speak when I went to events
- I volunteered to help out at work in giving recognition to others
- You could also reach out to charities and non-profits – all need speakers!
- I didn’t mention this in the episode, but becoming an instructor for the Red Cross is a great way to start (I did this!)
2) Find someone who will give you positive reinforcement
- Find a friend, colleague, or mentor that will support you regardless of what happens
- Join an organization like Toastmasters that will give you tons of position reinforcement
3) Get good coaching
- Once you’re a bit more comfortable on your feet, get honest coaching for someone you trust
- Attend a Dale Carnegie course – they are the best of the best on teaching people how to speak and present
- Start to do some teaching…either volunteer work, in your job, or teaching a class one night a week at a community college
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to coaching for leaders. This is episode number 37 |
| 0:04.0 | airing on May 14th 2012. |
| 0:08.0 | Produced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing human potential. |
| 0:13.0 | Welcome to coaching for leaders. |
| 0:18.0 | This is the show for leaders who want to improve themselves |
| 0:22.0 | so they can better engage and develop others. |
| 0:26.0 | Whether you're a seasoned leader or leading people for the first time, improving your leadership |
| 0:30.7 | skills will drive your success, and most importantly importantly the success of others. |
| 0:36.1 | This week's topic is three proven ways to become a better speaker. Well hello everyone and welcome back for another episode of Coaching for Leaders and |
| 0:47.2 | our new series starting off today on speaking and presenting effectively. |
| 0:54.0 | My name is Dave Stahoviac, and I'm coming to you from our studio here in Orange County, California. |
| 1:00.0 | And if you happen to be joining us for the very first time for coaching for leaders, |
| 1:04.2 | I'm so happy to have you as a listener. |
| 1:06.8 | And you're joining me on a perfect day because this is the very beginning of our new series on speaking and presentations. |
| 1:17.0 | And our previous series was on training, so that was episodes 30 through 36. |
| 1:21.0 | So if that's an interest to you feel free to go back you can |
| 1:24.9 | hop on and find those on iTunes but going forward here really for the next |
| 1:28.4 | probably four episodes we're going to be focusing on speaking and presenting and you may wonder well |
| 1:35.2 | what does that have to do with leadership? Well I'm going to be talking a lot about |
| 1:38.9 | that in the coming episodes but really it has everything to do with being a leader because one of the key |
| 1:45.8 | key things of leadership is being able to communicate a message clearly and |
| 1:51.8 | concisely. |
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