This is Steveer Robbins.

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They say that new technology is driven by love, and by love, I of course mean physical love.

You know, friends with benefits type love.

Only the friend is the internet.

Indeed, one of the biggest impediments to productivity

is the easy availability of all that love online at any moment. People who work from home

barely have enough time left over to work. What little free time there is left over? People

spend searching the internet for romantic love. People are searching for mail-order brides, online dating,

and other romantic solutions. Everyone wants to know what will work and how to get a girlfriend

or how to get a boyfriend. We all want to be finding our very own schmoopee of the appropriate gender.

Well, it turns out that biological anthropologist Helen Fisher worked with chemistry.com to do a

hanken big analysis of profile text, who writes to whom, who responds, and who turns out to be

compatible. Her book, Why Him, Why Her, is a great guide to making your search for a soulmate

much more efficient. Our brains drive compatibility. Instead of

basing her research on psychological models, Professor Fisher looked at the four major neurotransmitter

systems that affect the brain. She figured that those would play out in different dynamics when

people use online dating sites. Different systems are stronger in each of us, and she's given each one

of them

names that conserve as memory hooks. Explorers are high in dopamine. Explorers, well, they

explore. They seek novelty. They're spontaneous and they go after what's new. They're creative,

optimistic, enthusiastic, and mentally flexible. Builders are the high serotonin bunch. Builders

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