368-From Good to Marriage of His Dreams. Roy's Transformation Story

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Roy was married 25 years with 5 kids. And they had a good marriage.

They love the Lord and seek to serve Him with all.

Intimacy was tough though.

And every time he brought it up, she would get defensive, or feel like she wasn't good enough, or like he'll never be satisfied.

Anyone else feel that way?

He had heard about Masculinity Reclaimed for a couple of years and finally decided it was time.

He kept hitting a wall.

And if you're in that place, I want you to know...

It's legitimate that issues around intimacy hurt.

They hurt deeply.

But Roy got to a place where trying to change her wasn't working.

And so, he decided it was time to look at himself.

He knew going into the program if he let his wife know, in the beginning, she would put many, many more walls up...

So, he decided to go forward without her knowing. Because, as he said, this was a coaching program FOR HIM.

He had to talk to someone.

It was either therapy or a coaching program.

(And he said she doesn't really like therapy either).

Anyway... that's where things started.

But, in 12 weeks, God did something amazing.

If you're a man looking/grasping for hope and/or you want the tools for changing your marriage, I invite you to listen.

If you're a woman who will listen with a curious heart to find out how men really feel about intimacy, I invite you to listen.

Love & Blessings,

Belah

PS - Would you like to work on your side of your marriage? I invite you to sign up for a free Clarity Call here at delightyourmarriage.com/cc.

PPS - How healthy is your marriage, really? Take the free Marital Health Assessment here! delightyourmarriage.com/health

Quote from a Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate:

"I've learned so much, your course helped me figure out so many things I've been struggling with in my life and I've really been able to make sense of pain and emotions that I haven't figured out until now.

There are many more great things that have come from doing your course!"

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.
0:11.6	Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your marriage.
0:21.8	Hi there. It's Bella. Thank you for jumping on. Today's story. Oh my gosh. You are going to love it.
0:29.5	It's hilarious and just full of so much insight and wisdom. So if you're a husband listening who needs hope, Roy is going to give you
0:40.3	that. And his story is, you know, they had a good marriage, a great marriage even, but stuck in
0:47.4	the intimacy area and with a lot of reason for it. And he goes into that and he goes into the specific
0:53.9	things that the specific
0:56.0	paradigm shifts that he needed to implement to change his marriage. It's awesome. Praise God.
1:03.8	And now he's, yeah, he's got some funny stories to share. So you're going to love it. And if you're a wife listening,
1:12.2	again, here you get to have an unfiltered man's thoughts around what intimacy means to him.
1:19.3	It's so easy to overlook the importance of this, but women, we have to just have a non-judgmental listening ear to what's behind.
1:32.3	What's the heart of this man?
1:33.8	A Jesus follower.
1:35.3	Somebody who loves the Lord who's seeking him out.
1:38.9	And yet intimacy is this deep, deep desire in who he's designed to be. I invite you, dear wife, to have curiosity
1:50.4	and what you can learn through this. And dear husband, I mean, he was the only one who took a program.
1:56.6	And God did something dramatic. Seriously, you, yeah, you're going to love it. It's really fantastic.
2:03.0	So if you are ready, you're kind of in Roy's boat. Maybe you've been listening to the podcast
2:08.2	a while and it's just, you've gotten to a place where you're like, why am I waiting? Why am I waiting?
2:16.0	That's a good question. Why are you waiting?
2:18.0	You don't need to wait.
2:19.2	You can get to delightyourmarriage.com slash CC.
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