365-Are You the One Who Needs to Change? (3 Discernments)
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 13 January 2023
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
"It's my spouse who needs to change."
If you've said this or thought this...you are right.
So now, no need to listen to anything because there's nothing for you to do but wait around in a grumpy mood 'til your spouse decides to do something.
:)
Maybe there's another opportunity here.
Maybe we can be (as our team member Kyle says) "playfully curious" about this response.
Why do we assume it's all on our spouse?
What questions are we...
a-refusing to ask
b-unaware that we need to be asking
c-too distracted to think about it :)
(Oh, was that your email/TikTok/IG/Facebook/text message notification that just went off? :P )
Today's episode is to help you honestly look at where your marriage is, and discern if and how your partner is the issue.
And, if and how, with playful curiosity, you might have an opportunity in your situation, as well!
Love & Blessings,
Belah
PS If you want to see if we can help you in your marriage and honestly evaluate where you can work in your marriage, we invite you to schedule a free Clarity Call by clicking here.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:20.0 | Hi. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:25.4 | Hi there. |
| 0:27.4 | Happy New Year. |
| 0:29.7 | Oh, man. |
| 0:32.0 | If you know me, |
| 0:37.2 | if we've met personally or you've listened to the podcast, |
| 0:40.6 | I just honor you. I welcome you. I'm so excited that we are starting this new year together. And however long we've been journeying together, |
| 0:48.4 | it is such an honor that I have some level of influence in your life and in your heart. |
| 0:55.8 | Just the fact that you chose to click on this episode is, yeah, such an honor to me. |
| 1:02.1 | So thank you. |
| 1:03.7 | Also, the fact that you clicked on this episode means you're an intentional person and you want to pursue Jesus because he is your great reward |
| 1:14.9 | and you want to spend eternity with him. He is your king. That's my assumption going into this. |
| 1:23.2 | And if not, that might be a hat to try on for a while as you're listening to the podcast because, |
| 1:31.3 | you know, at some point you're going to need to figure out what you believe. |
| 1:35.6 | You're going to make some choices and not choosing is actually a choice in and of itself. |
| 1:40.6 | So if you're not a Jesus follower, because you haven't decided whether or not |
| 1:44.7 | you want to surrender your life to him and what he says in his word, then that's your decision, right? |
| 1:52.0 | So that is making a decision. Not deciding is a decision. So it is a very intentional life |
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