Part of that NRE excitement is the fact that it's all new you're discovering.

Part of the trick with that is being sure to pick things that sit in a good area like in between what's comfortable and what's

totally uncomfortable. Pushing yourselves a little bit whether it's we're going to go

to this event in a different town and make up fake names

for ourselves.

Right, I don't know, I'm just, I'm making something up here, right?

But it's like, we're in on this thing together.

It's a little scary, what if we screw it up?

But honestly, like, you're not hurting anyone.

There aren't actually bad consequences

if you can't found out, except maybe some embarrassment.

But it's like looking for what are those little things that you can do that are just like a little bit unknown, a little bit scary, a little bit challenging that you get to do together.

Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily.

And I'm Dedicher.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships,

not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging,

casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you.

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