Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic

medium, and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no

bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

Hello and welcome back to Ghost of a Podcast. I have a question and it is titled How to

Break Up when you're a highly sensitive person. And the questioner asks, I love my girlfriend

of three plus years and things on the surface are quite good, but I know that she isn't

the one for me if there is such a thing. And I don't see myself being with her in the

future, but I go back and forth daily about whether or not I should break up. And if I

do, how to do it without hurting her and also myself. Every time I've tried to break

up with her, I've gotten so emotional about losing her that I end up taking it back and

staying with her. In addition, she has a strict cutting off X's out of her life policy.

So when I break up with her, I know it's the end. How does a sensitive person like me,

who cares deeply about others, do the thing that I know we need to do while hurting the

least people? And how do I follow through with it when I'm so affected by her reaction

and also my own feelings from her reaction? Now, this person is us that I not share her

birth information. And so I shall not. This is a question that I think a lot of people

struggle with. And I've certainly counseled many people on this topic over the years.

I got a lead with this. It is everybody's nightmare to think that the person that they're

dating secretly doesn't want to be with them. Nobody likes the idea of their partner

secretly being over it and not telling them. So when you say you don't want to hurt your

girlfriend's feelings, I got to wonder is it that you don't want to hurt your girlfriend's

feelings or you don't want to deal with the hurt that you're causing by not really

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