355: Am I too much? Will I always hunger for this connection?

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 30 September 2022

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

"Am I too much? Will I always hunger for this connection?" If these are common questions you've asked yourself while stuck in a negative cycle with your partner you may be a sexual pursuer. Join George and Laurie in today's episode where they discuss new ways sexual pursuers can communicate their needs in Stage--2 of EFT. In Stage 2 the couple is aware of their negative cycle and understanding of the good reasons they have been missing each other. Stage 2 is the creation of a positive cycle that is focused on understanding, connection and expression of needs. The work of the sexual pursuer in Stage 2 is to soften the expression of those needs--rather than using criticism to express the felt rejection, working towards expressing with vulnerability. George and Lauri's role play will provide reassurance that new conversations and getting needs met are possible as couples are working together against the cycle in a new cycle that fosters closeness and connection. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The following content is not suitable for children.
0:02.6	Stage two, sexual pursuers, here we go.
0:06.9	Let's get what you need.
0:08.4	What do you think?
0:09.2	Finally, finally, we're going to talk about it.
0:12.0	Getting what we need.
0:13.6	Getting what we need.
0:18.1	Welcome to For Play Radio.
0:19.6	Couples in Sex Therapy.
0:21.2	I'm Lori Watson, your sex therapist.
0:23.6	And I'm George Fallon, your couples therapist.
0:26.0	And we are passionate about talking about sex
0:28.7	and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.
0:31.8	Our mission is to help our audience develop
0:34.8	a healthier relationship to sex
0:37.0	that integrates the mind, the heart, and the body.
0:41.6	Don't forget to check out uberloob.com with the Couple on For Play.
0:45.2	It really helps us to support the podcast
0:47.5	and keep delivering free content.
0:49.2	Thanks so much.
0:50.3	Remember to sign up now for the October 28th.
0:53.1	Great Love, Great Sex, Couples Retreat at For Play
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