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ADHD reWired

352 | The Beginning of An ADHD Journey with Natasha Hickling

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8937 Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2020

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

"Have you ever needed someone to talk and discuss some strategies for handling things around your ADHD? Listen as your host, Eric Tivers, and his guest Natasha Hickling discuss the beginning of her ADHD journey and the small online support group she has started, plus much more on this episode of ADHD reWired. Natasha is a twenty-eight-year-old primary school teacher from the U.K. For the last four years, she has traveled around the world working in Australia, China, and is now in Malaysia. Besides being a trained primary school teacher, she is also a SENCO; a Special Education Needs Coordinator at a school in Kuala Lumpur. Listen as Natasha discusses the challenges she faced in school and how she felt like she was two different people, the person she was at home vs. the person she became at school. Natasha also shares her experience running a marathon in her apartment during the pandemic quarantine and why she felt she needed to do it. Additionally, Natasha shares what led to her getting the formal diagnosis of ADHD eight months ago and the strategies she found that helped her through her post-grad years. Natasha speaks about the online community she created and why she felt it was so important to be able to talk about ADHD with people like herself. Natasha is a unique individual, and what she has gone through in her life will probably resonate with many of you, so definitely listen to the conversation. You'll learn: [03:12] Welcome to the show, Natasha! [03:23] Natasha was diagnosed with ADHD about eight months ago. [04:27] Natasha shares her life growing up and how academics got harder the older she got. [06:37] She discusses being two people, the person she was at home and the person she became at school under peer pressure. [09:00] Natasha speaks about running a marathon while she was in quarantine in Malaysia for charity. [12:13] Natasha discusses the book her sister would read to her when she was fourteen about children that were different called The Indigo Children. [15:08] Realizing that there were children like her was very powerful to her. [23:19] After being diagnosed with OCD and Anxiety and getting a deeper understanding of yourself, what did you do next? [26:25] Natasha shares what CBT was like for her. [27:09] Eric describes what exposure and response prevention, CBT based therapy is. [29:20] Natasha discusses what led to getting the formal ADHD diagnosis. [32:15] She shares how hard school was, how getting into the vocational core helped her. [38:15] Once you found out you had dyslexia, what did you do? [39:10] Natasha shares how dyslexia shows up for her. [40:15] Natasha speaks about what dyspraxia is. [42:46] She discusses some strategies she found helpful to get her through post-grad. [45:58] What do you do now for self-soothing? [47:12] Eric shares what can help if you are an inconsistent mediator. [48:55] Natasha speaks about the online community she started. [50:33] What has surprised you about organizing something like this? [54:42] Natasha shares some final words with the listeners. [55:06] Natasha, thank you so much for sharing your story. [55:58] If you are a regular listener, consider becoming a patron click on our Patreon tap at www.ADHDreWired.com Use my Audible.com affiliate link for your favorite titles: http://www.audibletrial.com/ADHDreWired ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Groups The 16th season of the ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability groups are ending soon. ArC 17 Summer Sessions run July 11th – Sept. 19th. We only have 9 spots remaining. Please visit coachingrewired.com to learn more and sign-up for our Last Scheduled Registration Event on June 11th at 3 PM CT. You don't want to miss it! Support the Podcast on Patreon Patreon allows listeners like you to support content creators like me. With a monthly contribution, you can get access to different levels of perks. One perk example is our Patron-only Group Coaching Sessions. Learn more at http://patreon.com/adhdrewired. ADHD reWired Facebook Group: If you would like to apply to join the ADHD reWired Secret Facebook group, go to https://www.adhdrewired.com/community and fill out the application. Productivity Q&A Get your ADHD questions answered live! These Q&A sessions take place on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 12:30 PM CT. Go to https://www.adhdrewired.com/events Want to be a guest? Hey! What about you? Do you have a story? Are you a coach? Are you an ADHD Clinician? If you answered yes to any of these questions and you'd like to be a guest, schedule a pre-interview call here.

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I just started coaching which I absolutely love it's it's literally like one of the best things I've ever done.

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I wanted people to talk to because I just felt like I my parents and my partner Ben is absolutely fantastic, but they just don't get it.

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And I felt like that's why I was, but when I was a teacher, I could relate to those children.

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So I, because you can say I get it because I, know I've been through it and I I wanted the same sort of people but obviously because obviously the pandemic and obviously being in Asia it's still not yet developed you know the S.M. World kind of it's still not yet developed, you know, the SEM world, kind of, it's not quite there yet.

0:36.3

There's nothing here really. So I just wanted to kind of create a, like just a small group that just met on Zoom weekly and it's just there's you know we're just

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everyday people and we just we just come on and we just talk about how the week's been and you know and if people can

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give strategies that help other people then that's great.

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ADHD rewired episode 352.

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This is the podcast for those of us with really good intentions and a slightly wandering attention.

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I'm Erica Tivirs. I'm a licensed clinical social worker by training and a coach by design. I'm your host and I have

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ADHD.

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ADHD rewired is more than just a podcast. We are a community. We are wired for connection and you are not alone.

1:24.3

Go to ADHD rewired.com to learn how you can join us in our free secret Facebook group.

1:29.6

Get additional resources for every episode including links to any resources we mentioned on today's

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show. You can support us on Patreon sign up for our email newsletter. You can request podcast postcards

1:40.3

to distribute to your clients and support groups and you can learn all about our

1:44.2

intensive online video-based coaching and accountability groups. You can do all of

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this at our website ADHD rewired.com. We know that starting is the hardest part, so let's get

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started. Welcome back to another episode of ADHD rewired. Today's a guest is Natasha Hickling. Natasha is she is 28

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years old and from the UK. She is traveling around the world for the last four

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years working in Australia, China, and now Malaysia.

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She is a trained primary school teacher and is now a Senko, which ends for special education needs coordinator at an international school in I am not going to pronounce this correctly

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