Hey guys hope you're having a great day

today. Thank you so much for tuning in. I got a great show for you today where I

welcome Terry Lennowsky and Terry is a TEDx speaker and founder of Soulful Listening

and she has a master's in educational psychology from the University of Nebraska.

And today we talk about how to listen better. We're approaching nearly 400 episodes

and I don't believe we've had an episode completely dedicated to listening, which is hard to believe. But we got one for you now.

I really enjoyed this conversation with Terry. We talk about how to become a better listener. She outlines the five ways to do that

and we get into all kinds of really great details. You'll be able to apply to your relationship. And what to do if your partner is really not that great at listening

and you might be feeling like you want them to listen to this episode. So certainly there's some things that you can do

and put into action and then also maybe suggest that your partner check this out. And Terry gives us some ideas on how to talk to our partner

and navigate a situation where we feel our partner might not be that great at listening. I really enjoyed this conversation with Terry.

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Hi, Terry. Thanks so much for joining me on the show today. Hi, today's I am super excited to be here and have a conversation with you today.

Today we're going to talk about listening and in particular, deep listening, soulful listening as you call it. And I think we talked about in the pre show that we've never done a full episode just on listening.

And obviously it's a huge part of being a human and showing up in relationships better is our ability to listen. And I know I can certainly improve my listening.

So let's dive into listening. And maybe we could start with why you're passionate about this particular area. You've done a TED talk on it. You do a lot of work in soulful listening. And then we'll talk about how to do it better.

Oh, thanks, Chase, you know, listening is just such a critical part of quality relationships.

And you know, it bridges all types of relationships, whether it be in work or with your children or with a romantic partner.

And what inspired me, I was doing some work for the US Department of Labor and was a consultant. And we had teams from across the nation that were working on human center design.

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