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Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3448: Envy by Keith Wilson on Self-Awareness, Gratitude, and a Focus on Personal Growth

Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

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Education, Mental Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.63.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 January 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3448: Keith Wilson delves into the often-misunderstood emotion of envy, distinguishing it from jealousy and explaining its roots in feelings of injustice and inequality. By understanding how envy distorts perceptions and fosters unhappiness, he offers a path toward overcoming it through self-awareness, gratitude, and a focus on personal growth rather than comparison. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/envy-51146f7bbbf0 Quotes to ponder: "Envy is when you don’t possess something and don’t want anyone else to have it, either." "Getting the car your neighbor has, having a baby, showing off an achievement, going on vacation, or making the best-seller list will not, repeat, NOT make you, me, or anyone happy for more than a day or two." "Blind yourself to the advantages of others. Focus on what you do have, the privileges you enjoy that others may wish they had." Episode references: Dante's Purgatorio: https://www.amazon.com/Purgatorio-Divine-Comedy-Dante-Alighieri/dp/0140444424 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Envy by Keith Wilson of keithwilsoncounseling.com.

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Envy is not a rare feeling, but it's a rarely acknowledged one. No one likes to admit they're

0:58.1

envious. Instead, they'll call it some other feeling. Anger, injustice, resentment, sadness,

1:05.6

hurt, puzzled, lonely, bored, or jealous among others. But if you've ever been unhappy that someone had

1:13.7

something you don't, you were envious, admit it. Anger and injustice are mistaken for envy. When you say

1:21.3

it's not right, others have something you don't have. When you nurture that anger, you mistake it

1:26.8

for resentment. You'll call it sadness if you

1:29.8

feel down about it, hurts if it pains you, and puzzled if you don't understand why. They'll say you're

1:36.5

lonely or bored when you wish you had someone or something to do. At the core of all these feelings

1:42.9

is envy. If you want to understand these feelings,

1:46.6

you must call it for what it is, envy. Jealousy is different from envy, although the two words are

1:53.6

often used synonymously. When you possess something and are concerned with losing it to a rival,

2:00.0

that's jealousy. Envy is when you don't possess something

2:03.9

and don't want anyone else to have it either. You're jealous when your girlfriend wants another man.

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