It is so easy to slip into the common victim mentality. But what could that mean for you and your growth? Cayla explains how our culture embraces the victim mentality and describes the signs that you might be experiencing. Even if you consider yourself a “fighter,” the victim inside you is still there giving you excuses for not being the winner you know you are. So how can you kick the victimhood to the curb? Cayla shares her advice on maintaining the mindset of a winner, focus on what you can control, and to stay on top.

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You will learn:

• [5:08] - The winner vs. victim mentality is rampant these days.
• [7:12] - For a lot of people, the victim mentality is very easy to slip into.
• [8:02] - What are some of the signs of being in a victim mentality?
• [9:23] - There is no power in the word “but.” Excuses will not get you what you want.
• [11:04] - You are not a victim. If you are listening to this podcast, you are a winner because you are growing your mindset.
• [12:21] - The victim in you loves the pity attention but your past does not define you.
• [13:19] - If your past is too much to get through, Cayla advises seeing a therapist.
• [16:35] - Many of us have a subconscious victimhood.
• [18:17] - Winning is clearly defined as coming out on top. Every winner has to go through a certain set of things in order to win.
• [20:34] - What are you doing every single day to cultivate that winning mindset?
• [21:47] - Winners don’t have the “midas touch” ideology.
• [23:26] - Affirmation is crucial but the intentional practice piece is what will set you apart.
• [24:29] - Focus on what you can control.
• [25:38] - Winning requires you to be all of yourself.

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