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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

342 - To Forgive or Not To Forgive

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Relationships, Education, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2021

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

What is forgiveness really all about? Some see it as healing and restorative, and others view it as harmful and invalidating. This episode is covering some of the studies that have been done about forgiveness while we look at its benefits and potential pitfalls. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I think it really cuts to the roots of what we are centralized to think of as justice.

0:06.8

You know in past episodes where we've talked about transformational justice and restorative justice

0:10.7

and things like that, that again we grew up in a culture where

0:13.4

justice equals payment hurting someone equals hurting someone yeah

0:18.8

equals somebody else being punished you know and when we think of justice more as how do I make this complete again,

0:26.9

how do I help make this heal again, it's a little bit different and it doesn't mean that

0:32.3

there's no consequences, but I think it does shift that emphasis a little bit better

0:36.3

or a little bit in a different direction.

0:38.9

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm deadicher we believe in looking to the future of

0:45.8

relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past so whether you're

0:50.1

monogamous polyamorous swinging dating, or if you just do relationships

0:55.5

differently, we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

1:05.0

forcing me to for myself to fit.

1:10.0

On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast we're talking about forgiveness and what the

1:19.6

heck it's really all about. Forgiveness is praised and encouraged by some and is seen as damaging and invalidating by others.

1:28.2

So today we're going to be taking a look at some of the studies about forgiveness, looking at

1:32.4

its benefits as well as some of the potential pit forgiveness, looking at its benefits,

1:33.4

as well as some of the potential pitfalls.

1:35.8

We're also going to dive into the topic of self-forgiveness,

1:39.5

which may be a secret key to self-improvement and better relationships.

1:46.0

I feel like that's like how you open a lot of things like this is the secret layer where

1:52.4

relationships thrive.

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