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Julian Dorey Podcast

#342 - Netflix Doc Target on Sociopaths, Childhood Trauma & 51-Yr Autism Delay | Sarma Melngailis

Julian Dorey Podcast

Julian Dorey

Comedy

4.6908 Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2025

⏱️ 145 minutes

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SPONSORS: 1) MIZZEN & MAIN: Right now, Mizzen & Main is offering our listeners 20% off your first purchase at https://mizzenandmain.com, promo code JULIAN20 PATREON https://www.patreon.com/JulianDorey (***TIMESTAMPS in description below) ~ Sarma Melngailis is an American chef, cookbook author, businesswoman and ex-convict. She was the owner and co-founder of the formerly highly-regarded Pure Food and Wine restaurant in New York City. FOLLOW JULIAN DOREY INSTAGRAM (Podcast): https://www.instagram.com/juliandoreypodcast/ INSTAGRAM (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/julianddorey/ X: https://twitter.com/julianddorey SARMA's LINKS - Substack: https://substack.com/@sarmamelngailis?r=16p9u&utm_medium=ios - IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarmamelngailis/ - X: https://x.com/sarma - WEBSITE: https://www.sarmaraw.com/writing/2022/4/5/bad-vegan-is-not-a-documentary JULIAN YT CHANNELS - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Clips YT: https://www.youtube.com/@juliandoreyclips - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Daily YT: https://www.youtube.com/@JulianDoreyDaily - SUBSCRIBE to Best of JDP: https://www.youtube.com/@bestofJDP ****TIMESTAMPS**** 00:00 - Intro 01:22 - Netflix ignoring Psychological Abuse, Nexivm, Stolen Youth, Parents' Divorce 10:50 - Sarma's Autism Diagnosis, Aspergers, Sensory Disorder, Telepathy Tapes 21:53 - Thought Reading, Autism as Superpower, LSD at 13, Blue Hair Girl 32:01 - Unsupervised Childhood, Young Girls Spectrum, Older Friends, Skaters 42:36 - Book Cut Story, Virginity taken at 14, Childhood Trauma, Psychopaths, Rescue Animals 53:06 - Manipulation, Memory Holes, Vulnerability, Kids, Love & Attachment, Sick Attachment 01:02:46 - Pure Love, Younger Guys, Jealousy, Defining Love 01:13:29 - Jealousy, Cona Atists Reformed?, Sociopaths, Victim Blaming, Awareness 01:23:50 - Hyper Awareness, Second Opinions, Judging People 01:34:26 - Love Reading, Penn, Wharton, Wall St, Culinary School, Frat House 01:45:00 - Wall St, Culinary School, Brief Marriage, Wife Role 01:56:01 - Settling vs Love, Divorce, Chaos, Fighting, Extremes 02:07:27 - Conflict Avoidance, Anxiety, Friendships, Love Languages, Fear Asking Help 02:20:33 - Burden, Affirmations, Culinary School, Food, Veganism, First Scheme CREDITS: - Host, Editor & Producer: Julian Dorey - COO, Producer & Editor: Alessi Allaman - https://www.youtube.com/@UCyLKzv5fKxGmVQg3cMJJzyQ - In-Studio Producer: Joey Deef - https://www.instagram.com/joeydeef/ Julian Dorey Podcast Episode 342 - Sarma Melngailis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

This isn't like a novel or a story about a fictional, sociopathic, diabolical character.

0:05.3

This is a real person who's still out there. When I was in the relationship with Matthew, that was my first time with a person who doesn't exhibit empathy. This Mr. Fox guy. This guy is one of them. He had a whole restaurant. I was hired to be the recipe tester and help write the book. And I had like about a quarter million dollars, about a year and a half into the race trip I was in debt by the same amount.

0:23.1

My experience on so many levels was identical to being an occult. It's just that it was one-on-one. There are certain type of people out that will study you, figure out what would be your personal biggest nightmare. And now I'm going to make it come true. And I remember thinking, okay, this is really up it got weirder and weird and weird and sort of as if he had these special powers and the more confused I got the easier it became for him to mess with my head and so hey guys if you're not following me on Spotify please hit that follow button and leave a five-star review. They're both a huge huge help. Thank you.

0:55.9

You know, any tattoos and Rikers? I do not, but you can imagine how intimidated people were by the duck.

1:14.0

The duck is definitely like, we better stay away from her.

1:17.7

That's right.

1:18.4

That's like it, I feel like that could be like, it could pass for a certain gang affiliation and just make up a gang name and buy it.

1:25.7

Yeah.

1:26.2

Now, after I was there for a while, this thing happened where this woman approached me and

1:30.3

wanted to know what I'd done because she was, she noticed that she said, everybody

1:36.2

leaves you alone.

1:37.3

You must have done something really badass.

1:41.0

And so I was in a dorm of, there were up to 50 women in the dorm at the same time so I was never in a cell

1:47.6

and she so there's a lot to observe and she just thought that I must have done something really

1:53.9

horrendous that everybody kind of left me alone I didn't you know nobody was giving me a hard time

1:58.4

and I just thought that was kind of hilarious because um

2:02.5

yeah no clearly i hadn't murdered a bunch of people or or whatnot i just had a very i think i had a

2:09.1

very kind of zen way about being there that after a while nobody gave me a hard time and um yeah it's

2:17.1

strange like i i i can't relate because I haven't been in prison.

2:20.4

But you do notice how like when you look at COVID, one day everyone was going about their

2:27.2

lives and the next day everyone said stay inside and everyone did.

2:31.4

And so people adapt it so fast.

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