Some of the master therapists that I referred to that have indicted polyamory are

attachment-based relational therapist leaders and it's easy to see how they came to the idea that you had to have a diatic relationship

to experience secure attachment and then when you have a client is experiencing torture and torment due to jealousy, it's really easy to default to that.

Well your problem is this open relationship, but it leaves off a great big truth, which is that people grow in the direction that they want to grow.

And if you want something for yourself, you can go get it. But if everybody around you is telling you that thing is

impossible, don't go get it. That would be a waste of your time. That really

hampers a person's ability to grow without being an extremely independent

thinker and independently motivated. Welcome to the Multiannary

podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm'm dead occur. We believe in looking to the future of

relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're

monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

Forcing me to for myself to fit.

On this episode of the multi-amory podcast we're speaking with Martha Kaupy. We will be

discussing what it takes for therapists to best serve their non-monogamous clients, some of the most important

tools that help make polyamorous relationships thrive, as well as what to look for if you're

seeking a therapist for yourself or for your relationship.

Martha Cowpe is a therapist, author, speaker, and educator specializing in complex

relational therapy, sex issues, and alternative family structures.

She trains therapists all over the world to work more effectively with a broad range of sex issues

and with clients who are in open relationships.

And she is the author of Polyamore,

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