4.8 • 2.3K Ratings
🗓️ 17 November 2020
⏱️ 74 minutes
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Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it? We're breaking it down with the host of ‘We’re Having Gay Sex’, Ashley Gavin and her 'Youth in the Booth' Gara Lonning. These two hilarious comedians discuss how their podcast blew up and how Gara keeps Ashley from getting cancelled. Gara gives us tips on being in an open relationship while Ashley gives some advice on her favored techniques for giving oral, and shines a light on common mistakes people make when going down on a vulva. Finally, everyone talks about their grooming situations, and how showered or un-showered they want a partner to be before going south.
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0:00.0 | Hello everybody, welcome back to How Come. I am so excited for this episode. It was not supposed to be this week's episode, but like in the grand scheme of things it was supposed to be. Do you know what I mean? |
0:11.0 | Like we had a whole thing recorded and then Tech New or whoever was like no, that is not going to happen this week. |
0:21.0 | So we had my friends and comedians so talented from the We Are Having Gay Sex podcast Ashley Gavin and Gara Lonning. You might know them. Ashley was on this podcast before. She's our first repeat guest. And Gara is Ashley's youth in the booth, which they will tell you about on this episode. But yeah, I'm so excited to have them here. And |
0:50.0 | that's that's that's kind of it. Thanks for being here and being companions. I love you. And yeah, if you're ever like out of how come episodes listen to We Are Having Gay Sex because it's so, so funny. And I love these two. And you guys are going to as well. And if you like this podcast, you know, I would love to hear from you whether it's in an Instagram post or a message or maybe you're looking at your phone. |
1:19.0 | Right now and you're thinking I haven't rated it reviewed or subscribed. Could we do that now? That would be so fun. Okay, go to iTunes or what's it called? Apple music. What is it called? I don't know. Open that purple thing. Search how come? Yeah, type out the whole word because it's not going to show up. I know. I know. |
1:47.0 | Then press enter and like for a second, you're like, does this podcast even exist? And yeah, thank God it shows up. Click on it. Now scroll down, down, down, down, down. Now click rate five stars. Okay, thank you very much. And leave a review. Maybe you could pause right now and think of like whatever you want to say or do it at the end of this episode. I think I remind you again. |
2:11.0 | Some of the reviews this week that were left are so funny. One person was clearly making fun of me, but in like a cute like I love you way. And verbatim said what I suggested to maybe right. It says as the subject informational and funny. This is a very sex positive podcast. Everyone should listen to it. Oh my god. So sex positive and funny. No, but for real. I love remean everything about this. So cute. Like I love that. And also I'm going to say, I love that. |
2:40.0 | And also I don't know if I read this one, but this one was just this podcast is the best in caps. And then the subject was yes, cuties. And I was like, yes, we are. |
2:49.0 | Cutie companions are the cutiest. So yeah, Ashley Gavin, Garellonning, amazing comedians follow them, listen to them. This episode is going to be awesome. And yeah, yeah pumped. |
3:02.0 | How come how come how come I can't achieve my cats and chief I'm rolling up my sleeve. I'm rolling up my sleeves. Oh, maybe I believe these guests can help. Cause I can do it by myself. I want to. |
3:21.0 | Welcome Ashley Gavin. Hey, hi and Darryl. Hi, I'm so excited. Yeah, I'm very exciting Robin. Of course is also here. Hello, we did not intend to have these two on this week. But yeah, they came in last minute when we realize this week's episode had been corrupted. We found out this news on Friday the 13th, which was yesterday, which is apparently I heard a good day for womb. |
4:17.0 | I was like, womb havers people. I know that's what I thought that was an interesting. It's our day magic. Shit's going to happen. |
4:25.0 | Womabers. Yeah, magic shit did happen. And yeah, so I think everything happens for a reason. And I'm so excited to have you guys. I'm glad to be back. |
4:34.0 | I'm glad to have you here. Yeah, back like back in season two. We had Ashley on for an episode called we're having gay sex and it was before you had launched your podcast. And now no way. Yeah, you know that. |
4:50.0 | No, that's awesome. So now we are post launch, way post launch. And you guys have been doing the podcast for a while now. And it's blown up a fuck up. |
5:01.0 | Yeah, short nations about that. Stop it. Stop it. I want more. I want everything. I'm never satisfied. I understand. But yeah, actually the Scorpio though. So I feel that way with like all comics is that we're never satisfied. But like verifiably you guys have like a great |
5:19.9 | fan base. Kara has a fan page. You know, I've seen. Yeah, baby, Kara. I love baby, Kara. Baby, Kara, if you're listening, I love you so much. |
5:30.9 | Baby, Kara is definitely listening. Oh, sure. And I love them so much. Yeah. But Ashley basically like how how's your life changed since launching the pod? Oh my god, overnight. Yeah, I mean, I've been doing comedy at the time for like six years. And not |
5:48.9 | not to toot my own horn, but like well, doing comedy well. Yeah, too. You're on horn. Yeah. And and just like making no traction in the industry basically. And then I started this podcast. And it, you know, did practically what it felt like it blew up overnight. I feel like it's been sort of steady growth. But it was just I guess right out the gate pretty big. |
6:14.9 | Yeah, we're having gay sex is the name of the podcast is a comedy podcast. You don't need to be gay to listen to it. We have lots of straight guests. All different types of people. It's a lot of fun. But that being said, it was a yeah, I mean, now like I'm just treated so differently. And it's great to be treated differently. |
6:33.9 | But this is why it's so great. You get treated by other comics, other comics, all of a sudden kissing your ass and being like, oh, you're so funny. It's like because you have like a big TikTok following. Yeah, I'm like, these are the same fucking jokes. You ask, whole I've had this material forever. Like, yeah, I don't know. It's just but also was it online because like I feel like before like before like a few years ago, like none of us put our shit online. It was like you don't do that unless you have a special. And then no, it wasn't really on. |
7:03.9 | Online at all. Yeah. And take talkers go crazy for live comedy videos. Seriously, they really like them. They love them, especially the crowd work. I think they really enjoy watching and provide moments owning idiots in the audience. Yeah, those are the best out put online because I'm never going to use that again. It's like, what am I going to do with that? Where else would it go? Yeah, it has to go online where other people can enjoy the yell. They're good yells. Yeah. Thank you. Also, also people love to like hate Ashley. |
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