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Coaching for Leaders

336: The Choice for Compassion, with Edith Eger

Coaching for Leaders

Dave Stachowiak

Management, Careers, Business

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2018

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Edith Eger: The Choice

Edith Eger was one of the last Holocaust survivors to remember the horrors of the camps. She was a renowned psychologist and speaker who specialized in treating patients with traumatic stress disorders. Edith is author of the book, The Choice: Embrace the Possible*.

Edith was 90 years old when this episode was recorded. She passed away in 2026 at age 98.

Key Points

  • It’s not what happens in life, it’s what we do with it.
  • The power we have is to choose to respond, not react.
  • Sometimes seemingly insignificant worries are emblematic of greater pain.
  • If you hate a person, they don’t suffer — you do. There’s nothing wrong with anger, it’s how you channel it.
  • Underneath anger is a lot of pain.

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Book Notes

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Before I was born, before my parents were born, today's guest and her family were

0:06.6

abducted by the Nazis, beginning an unbelievable journey of over 90 years. On this episode, Edith Eager is here to teach us how to make

0:16.2

the choice for compassion. This is Coaching for Leaders episode 336.

0:21.8

Produced by Innovate Learning

0:25.0

Maximizing Human Potential

0:28.0

Greetings to you from Orange County, California. This is coaching for leaders and I'm your

0:35.8

host Dave Stahoviac. Leaders aren't born, they're made. And this weekly show gives you

0:42.2

access to the practical wisdom that will

0:44.7

empower you to become a better leader. I am so glad that you tuned in for this

0:50.8

conversation because today a conversation one that every leader I think I

0:58.0

dare say every leader would benefit from hearing because so much of what we do, the work we do as leaders is about

1:07.7

compassion, it is about forgiveness in some ways, and it is always about dare I say love. The work we do to

1:17.4

develop people to care about people and today's guest is someone who perhaps more than any guest I've ever had on this show.

1:26.9

Not only knows about this from firsthand experience, but has developed such an eloquence and an ability to speak to love and forgiveness and compassion in a way that I think we will probably never hear from any other on the show. I am really thrilled to welcome

1:44.3

Edith eager to the show. Edith was 16 years old when the Nazis came to her

1:50.1

hometown in Hungary and took her Jewish family to an internment center and then to Auschwitz.

1:56.4

Her parents were sent to the gas chamber by Joseph Menagalay soon after they arrived at the camp.

2:02.1

Hours later, Mangalay that Edy dance a waltz to the blue Danube

2:07.2

and rewarded her with a loaf of bread that she shared with her fellow prisoners.

2:11.6

These women later helped save Edy's life.

2:15.0

Edy and her sister survived Auschwitz and managed to live until the American troops liberated the camps in 1945

2:21.0

and found Edy in a pile of dying bodies. One of the few living Holocaust survivors to remember

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