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🗓️ 11 June 2024
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My book, Porn Free: Becoming the Type of Man Who Does Not Look At Porn, is known for its provocative statement, “Porn is not the problem for us. It's the solution.”
In the first of two episodes, Coach Vern Tompke from Finding Traction joins me, as I share 12 more provocations aimed at challenging your recovery thinking.
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0:00.0 | Porn Free Radio, episode 336. |
0:10.4 | Hey, this is Matt, and I'm recording this episode in June of 2024. |
0:16.4 | Before we get started, I want to talk about Rev Group coaching. |
0:20.5 | This summer's a great time to join a group of like-minded men, guys who listen to the podcast like you, and are taking action to live porn free. |
0:30.1 | Discover the benefits of working with others. |
0:32.5 | We meet each week via Zoom, but guys connect and message daily. |
0:36.6 | You don't have to do this alone. |
0:38.9 | Go to Recoveredman.com slash Rev and fill up my short application. We have several different |
0:44.6 | times to choose from. To check out available openings or to get on our waiting list, once |
0:49.9 | again, go to Recoveredman.com slash re-ev and apply today. So back in 2020, my book Porn Free, Becoming the Type of Man, |
1:24.3 | who does not look at porn, was published. |
1:26.7 | And in the book, it contained one |
1:29.6 | provoking thought, a provocation, a controversial idea. And it was that porn is not the problem |
1:38.6 | for us. It's the solution. And this thought went contrary to a lot of thinking at the time in recovery where porn was made to be this big problem, this epidemic that needed to be solved. |
1:52.8 | And that provoking thought that it was a solution actually led to some negative emails and at least one horrible review on Amazon. |
2:03.4 | But I really liked having that as part of the book. |
2:07.4 | I really liked that idea because I think it had a transformative effect on a lot of the readers |
2:12.1 | because it got them to thinking, if porn isn't my problem, what's the problem that's driving this behavior? |
2:20.2 | What's going on under the surface? |
2:22.1 | And I love that. |
2:24.0 | So I was thinking, if we did it once, we could do it again. |
2:27.2 | So I came up with 12 provocations. |
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