I spent years trying to be more attractive to my husband by working harder, by being more

helpful, having the right conversations, and none of it worked. Today I'm sharing what actually

did, and not one of the 11 things on this list has anything to do with looks. Then I'll be giving

out my worst relationship advice of the week award, and this week it's one I followed

myself for an embarrassingly long time. I hear people give this advice constantly, and it will

tank your chances of getting the affection you're craving. Don't fall for it. We'll get there,

but first, let's talk about becoming an irresistible magnet. I'm warning you right now,

listening to this podcast is going to make your marriage irresistible.. I'm warning you right now. Listening to this podcast is going to make your

marriage irresistible. So whether you're exhausted from carrying everything and you just want him to

step up and be a real partner or you're lonely and just aching to feel close and adore it again,

you're in the right place. I'm Laura Doyle, New York Times best-selling author and creator of the six intimacy skills.

For 25 years, I've had a front row seat, watching women go from burnt out and disconnected to having the passionate, easy marriage they always wanted.

Love is learnable. The secrets are real, and this is where I teach them. I'm so glad you're here.

There are 11 simple behaviors that men find irresistible in women, and not one of them has to do with hair,

makeup, or how you dress. None of them are manipulations. They won't make you seem desperate.

You won't ever have to act dumb. In fact, they'll help you be your best self, your real self. Here's how you can

become irresistible to your man. Number one, be vulnerable. A study at the University of Toronto

found that women are more emotional than men. There's research money well spent, right?

But it's true that we women have emotional brilliance

that men find wondrous and alluring in particular our vulnerability draws them in like a

magnet to steal being vulnerable means revealing the less than perfect parts of you the shy part

the tender part the part that's afraid of you, the shy part, the tender part, the part that's

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