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How To Be Awesome At Everything

335. How To Be Awesome At Having A Personal Fortress To Retreat & Recharge

How To Be Awesome At Everything

Lindsay Dickhout

Business

4.6621 Ratings

🗓️ 27 September 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

I'm not sure about you but the heaviness of the world right now has me needing more time for calm and reflection and planning… and in that process of really prioritizing this… I realized the importance of a personal fortress.  
 
A space where you can retreat and be alone and do whatever you need to do to reset your mind, revisit your priorities and how you spend your time and mental energy… all of it. 
 
I wanted to do a podcast episode on this topic because I think changing our environment changes our headspace and in this way it can be so fulfilling. 
 
Today we are diving into planning more peace and calm and clarity in our lives through slowing everything down and spending time in a place that is special to you.  
 
 
 
Ideas of what this could look like! 
 

Home gym

Bathtub

Desk or writing nook

Couch by a window

Large closet or wardrobe corner

Backyard garden

Front porch or balcony

Comfy chair with a blanket

Yoga mat corner

Bed with soft lighting

Garage gym or workshop

Attic or loft space

Basement reading nook

Hammock

Fireplace area

 
In this episode, we'll explore inspiring ideas and perspectives from thought leaders on how to build your own personal sanctuary and use it to find calm, focus on priorities and recenter.
 
 
We cover… 
 
  • Why having a personal "fortress" matters in a noisy, stressful world
  • How stepping away creates peace, clarity, and calm
  • The holistic benefits of slowing down: mental, emotional, physical, and relational
  • Avoiding burnout through daily renewal ("sharpening the saw")
  • Why everyone needs to recharge, introverts and extroverts alike
  • Creative ideas for personal sanctuaries (bath, desk, couch, garden, home gym, and more)
  • How to design your space: calming atmosphere, personalization, clutter-free environment
  • Ways to recharge in your fortress: stillness, journaling, prayer, meditation, yoga, breathwork
  • The importance of unplugging completely
  • Guarding this time fiercely and saying no without guilt
  • How your fortress becomes a secret superpower, helping you return to life refreshed and energized
 
Over time, this refuge becomes your secret superpower. 
 
It allows you to meet life's challenges with a calmer mind and a fuller heart, because you know you have a safe place to restore yourself.
 
So design your spaces, embrace the quiet, and enjoy the process of recharging. By making this a habit, you'll not only find more peace and clarity, but also bring your most awesome, energized self to everything you do and everyone you care about.
 
Over time, this refuge becomes your secret superpower. 
 
It allows you to meet life's challenges with a calmer mind and a fuller heart, because you know you have a safe place to restore yourself.
 
So design your spaces, embrace the quiet, and enjoy the process of recharging. By making this a habit, you'll not only find more peace and clarity, but also bring your most awesome, energized self to everything you do and everyone you care about.
 
 
**LINKS!**
 
Here are links to the heating pad set-up that Lindsay talks about:
 
Here is a link to Lindsay's 2.0 planning system:

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0:00.0

This podcast topic is something that I think is so relevant in this moment that we are living in right now,

0:08.8

but also relevant in general as we are people existing, trying to do our best. And the reality is

0:18.8

that part of life is sadness and hardship. And we need to constantly

0:26.5

be working on tools and strategies for how we work through those times. So I wanted to take kind of

0:35.5

the heaviness that I was feeling in my own life.

0:38.2

And I know that so many people are feeling as well for lots of different reasons, but also

0:43.1

make this something that is an evergreen podcast that really applies to our lives in general

0:48.7

for more mindfulness and calm and clarity and getting re-centered with our priorities. So this is actually,

0:56.4

I think, uplifting in a, you know, like in a serious way, but I think it can bring you so much

1:03.0

value diving into what a personal fortress looks like for you. This is a place where you can retreat and recharge. Like think of it

1:15.4

like a safe haven to slow down, find peace, and just kind of clear your thoughts. For some people,

1:23.7

this means being very still. And for other people, you can be active through it. It's interesting.

1:31.3

I think things like this are very fluid, figuring out what it looks like to you and it feels the most

1:38.2

natural. For some people, if you're walking on a treadmill and that feel like as as a personal fortress, as a place to

1:45.5

retreat, that's like too much going on.

1:47.4

They need to be, you know, in a couch or in a chair with sunlight in the corner of a room.

1:55.4

Like that's how they do it.

1:56.8

So this whole thing is very like what feels great to you?

2:00.6

But first I want to kind of go through why.

2:04.4

Why is it important to have a personal fortress?

2:08.8

I think that modern life bombards us with so much, so much busyness, stress, information overload. It's our job to protect our

2:24.2

mental headspace and also like have a time set aside when we're not constantly going,

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