332-Tunnel With No Light & Now Joy Filled -- Steve's Transformation Story
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
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🗓️ 26 March 2022
⏱️ 33 minutes
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How many broken, sad, dramatic stories have you heard this week, this month, this year? Where hearts are broken and families torn apart? Maybe you're even in a similar situation.
This is why I want to share as many of these transformations as possible. Here's where Steve began...
"I felt like I was looking down a long dark tunnel and there was no light at the end. Divorce wasn't an option. But I was feeling hopeless it could ever be different."
Sadly, this is not the first time I've heard a husband describe his marriage that way. He is committed to Jesus. He loves his family. He wants his kids to grow up in a Godly home, with joy and laughter. And he wants them to see what a wonderful marriage can look like.
But instead, his wife is cold. Stand off-ish. Sex is just a scheduled thing that happens because it's on the (very bottom of) her checklist. A lot of frustration and tension was in their home.
One thing you'll find out about Steve is he's not one to sit idly by letting the marriage disintegrate. This is why when he was searching for podcasts on intimacy, he stumbled on DYM and became an avid listener.
Well, I am happy to say that after 3 months of, only him doing the work, in fact, she didn't know! He said she had no interest in changing, working on the relationship or certainly not discussing sex... but God has done some awesome things!
I want you to listen today because it's when we hear stories that God puts hope in us to a greater degree (I think) than just direct teaching. It's really through stories that we hear someone's heart and we hear what God has done in them and in their marriages.
If you're struggling... I want you to resist the temptation towards jealousy. And instead rejoice that God is still changing hearts, lives, and marriages! (Even if only 1 does the work!) Steve can give you great evidence that it's worth it even on this side of heaven.
Belah
PS - We'd love to have you join the FREE men's course Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations!! Available for a very short time and will be released starting Monday, March 28th!
Click here to register for the FREE all-new Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations course!
A recent grad of the full MR Program wrote:
"DYM has changed me and my marriage, I hope it will be a forever change, but that will depend on me continuing to be the man God has asked me to be.
My wife is responding to me in ways that she has never responded, her love and affection are at all time highs and our intimacy is at a place I have always hoped it would be. I have more energy, focus, and life to give the people around me."
Click here to sign up for the all-new Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations course! THIS Monday, March 28, 2022!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.6 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:21.2 | Hi there. |
| 0:22.4 | This is Bella. |
| 0:23.6 | I want to thank you for jumping on here with me. |
| 0:27.5 | I'm just imagining whether you're walking down the street in your car, whatever it may be. |
| 0:32.6 | But I just hope that this conversation leaves you with hope and encouragement and just a sense of, |
| 0:40.4 | oh my gosh, God is still changing lives. And yeah, I cannot be more thrilled about sharing this |
| 0:50.0 | story with you. And Steve and I actually spoke yesterday. I had another transformation story in mind |
| 0:57.5 | that I was going to share with you, but this one's fresh and on my mind, so I decided to show this |
| 1:03.4 | one. But, oh my gosh, the masculinity reclaimed foundations course is coming up on Monday, March 28th. So I want you to prioritize this. |
| 1:15.7 | I'd like you to put it on your calendar and don't miss it. So if you are in a similar zone as Steve |
| 1:23.4 | was with really feeling like you're looking down this dark tunnel of marriage. No, |
| 1:31.4 | divorce is not an option, but golly, it doesn't look like there's a light at the end. |
| 1:38.8 | Yeah, I just can't wait for you to hear Steve's story and that there there's hope for you and the principles, |
| 1:48.2 | the foundations of the same work that he did is in this free course for you. It's only available |
| 1:54.6 | a limited amount of time. It's all refreshed material and it really focuses on helping you transform. |
| 2:03.8 | If you're new to delight your marriage, I want to thank you and welcome you. |
| 2:08.7 | And just let you know that these transformation stories, I try to share them. |
| 2:13.5 | There's many, many more. |
| 2:15.1 | There really are. |
| 2:16.3 | I don't share them all because I know you want actual content from me too. |
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